Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1)

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kind of cleanser in the wintertime, like more of a balmy, waxy cleanser that leaves me feeling more nourished versus like in the summer, right when I'm more oily and sweaty, generally speaking, and it's humid outside, like that doesn't work so well. So then I need something that's like a little bit more purifying. I agree. When I'm in definitely coming from Florida to California, especially going to the desert next week, this weekend, I'm like moisturizing, moisturized because even drinking more water, but also.

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S… Speaker 1 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

electrolytes as well which matcha aid 100 helps me with that along with even just adding also some Celtic salt in my water both of those do the trick

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S… Speaker 3 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

I love it. I just, you have so much energy. Like Laura, like I'm just, I'm like need to go take a nap after. I just am so impressed with your energy. So I don't know that this is something you struggle with, but what do you do if you just like aren't feeling motivated, but you have to do, you know, even just sometimes doing my skincare routine. I'm like, I just don't have the motivation or energy and you have so much going on. Is there, do you just push through it? Is that not something you experienced? Do you have any tips for people who kind of struggle with that energy or motivation? You know.

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S… Speaker 1 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

it's funny because for me i'm always expected to be on because my personality is always so uplifting and when i'm not on i feel like everyone around me like with my energies a little off they're like are you okay and it is hard to kind of keep up with it because

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You know, there's times where I'm like, dang, like I'm burnt out. Like I need a break from things like I need to just get off my phone, not edit. You know, there's a lot of work and planning and especially owning your own business and having to answer to so many different folks and stuff. And I think my best piece of advice is go to where.

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you feel the most at peace. Me and Hunter talk about it all the time. We're like, be each other's peace, right? Like you want to come home and you want to feel at peace. There's a lot of things going on. Chaos, work, family.

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But if you could find something where you feel at peace, I think that's a great way to reset. I love that. And I love that you and Hunter, it seems like you guys are just really each other's support in so many different aspects of life. Yeah, it's tough. I mean, to say like, you know, being a partner and also a partner in business is definitely something that's not easy. I mean, to say that it's a perfect day every day is totally incorrect because there's times I'm like.

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S… Speaker 2 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

on hunter's ass and like i'm like hunter you need to answer this or you need to do this like i'm like the wifeager i'm like we gotta get this done the wifeager all right tara this leads me to a really fun question and it does not need to be directed at hunter hunter if you're listening to this this is not directed at you do you have any like pet peeves like what are things that just like you're so positive stuff but like there must be some things that kind of like piss you off like you know if someone steals a spot while you're waiting for it at the parking lot or

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S… Speaker 1 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

is on speaker on the train it really bothers me when people like call people out in public and embarrass them yes like that is one of my biggest pet peeves is when i see people talk down to other people whether they're an employee whether they're a co-worker family like i even i talked to hunter about something like if there is like an issue like pull people to the side like don't embarrass somebody in front of other people like i just don't like that

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Tara, I had a boss earlier in my career who said praise in public, reprimand in private like all the time. And that's such good advice. That is very good advice. Even, you know, something because you guys obviously relate to this now being parents. Oh, I was just thinking that. For me, I talked to Hunter. I'm like just thinking about like futuristic ways of how like parenting and stuff. And like we look at certain things with our parents and we're like, OK, like all the amazing things. But then things were like, OK, maybe we'd want to do differently.

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Even like for like parenting and stuff, I know it's really hard, but I remember there's just certain things where like, you know, being on the same page, I noticed it as a kid with my parents, like kind of the disagreements and the agreements. And you notice that. So I think that's why I kind of, you know, feel really called to, you know, just loving having the discussions in private and being able to do that.

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S… Speaker 3 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

Yeah, I feel like there's been a trend lately of people complaining about either like their like making content about their spouse or their children. And that's kind of what's getting them a lot of engagement. And I hate it. It makes me you know, it's like I just want I'm like this.

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S… Speaker 2 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

doesn't this doesn't go away you know and i was thinking that screenshots live forever yeah i saw one of those videos of like a mom influencer who was just like this is for all the overstimulated like toddler moms that also have a baby and it was like a photo of like them looking miserable as like their toddler was trying to like play with them and i'm like their toddler's gonna see this one day and like be really sad it's like they're normalizing making fun of their child this goes back to tara's

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S… Speaker 4 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

point earlier about keyboard warriors where it's like you can just it's having a keyboard or being behind a keyboard i should say removes a certain filter that we'd all be probably better served to have in real life yeah totally tara how do you i mean i know that like we kind of touched on this before but like how do you deal as your career has gotten bigger and your social media has gotten your social media presence has grown how do you deal with the negativity how do you deal with the fame um you know

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It's crazy. There's a lot of people out there that, you know, will always come around and find something to say and, you know, don't really know us. But I think for me.

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we have some friends that like see the comments and they get more angry than i do and they'll be like they'll want to write back so bad and they're like hey well blah blah and like say something really funny and then they'll just it'll just make the keyboard warriors come back like double like they'll come back like with more accounts and more things and i'm like it's not worth it just let them like let them be but it's funny because someone commented like one of my i remember

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one of my photos or videos i forgot and they're like they're like oh you're so fat or whatever or they're like you're fat or you're pregnant or something i don't know i was like what the heck like i was a picture that i was extremely bloated in and they're always like looking to find something and it's just like interesting because people get so mean and they'll like look for things no but tara do you feel like people specifically when it's come to you know rising to fame they're

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more there's more hate online than in person like have you had like any incidents in person with fame versus online people when they meet us in person they're like wow you guys are really like amazing like like really just nice people when they meet us they're like genuinely like wow you're actually relatable and like you are a nice person and like they because

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We treat the janitor the same as the CEO. So it doesn't matter who you are. We're kind to everybody. So I think it's like when they meet us in person, then they're like, wow, we actually just met them. And they'll talk to each other like they're actually really nice, you know, so it's really nice to hear that. But on online, like if people don't know us, they kind of will just say whatever they want.

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S… Speaker 2 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

Yeah, it's rough. It's yeah, the comments. I can't even not even people that I know. I just can't even read comments anymore because I think they're I'm like, I don't exist in the world where people think that it's OK to talk to other people.

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S… Speaker 3 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

Oh, you should see. They fight back and forth with each other. And, like, I'm like, you guys do know that I'm a human, like, behind here. Tara, we're going to do a quick little round, a flash round of rapid fire, playful questions, just ten for now. Just first things that comes to mind, either or. I'm going to name two things, and you just go with your gut. Are you ready? Okay, I'm ready. Dink or smash?

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S… Speaker 2 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

Okay, wait, wait. Sorry. I got to pause it. Every time I hear Dink, I think dual income, no kids. So I need to know what is Dink in pickleball. It's a shot. Oh. It's a shot. It is a shot. I was so lost. I was with you, Diana. I'm like, what? Guys, you know Dink is dual income, no kids. That's like the acronym for. And when you said smash, my brain went somewhere else. Get your heads out of the gutter.

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S… Speaker 1 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

Stay on theme. Okay, wait, what's a dink and what's a smash? A dink is a shot? It's a dink. Yeah, so dinking is at the kitchen line. And basically, it's in pickleball to slow down the game and people dink back and forth at the net. It's a shot that just goes right above the net and into the kitchen. Okay. And a smash is like an overhead smash. So like basically also in tennis, too, if you have a high ball, you could smash it. Okay, and you like dink.

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S… Speaker 3 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

I like dinking because I'm a reset player on the pickleball court. I don't like speeding up the ball. I like to slow the game down. Okay, thank you. On to the next one, Laura. Here we go. Brunch or dinner date? Dinner date. Chocolate or vanilla? Vanilla. Morning workout or evening? Morning. Iced matcha or hot matcha? Iced. Beach day or mountain day? Oof.

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S… Speaker 3 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

I'm a sucker for both. But if I had to pick one, it would be beach. Home-cooked meal or dining out? Home-cooked meal all the day. No seed oils out here. Okay, I have to, you know, everyone needs to know this who's listening. She's married to a professional chef, so. Yeah, right. That makes it a lot more appealing for a home-cooked meal when her husband's cooking. And her father-in-law did diners, drive-ins, and dives. They know a thing or two about food. Yeah, that too.

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As you're a night owl. As I've gotten older, I've switched roles. I'm now an early riser. I used to be a night owl. Glam or natural? Natural. Smoothie or matcha?

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Can I have matcha in my smoothie? Yes, you can. That is the correct answer. Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. Rapid fire over. Okay, Tara, we like to end our podcast with two questions. The first question is, what is a life motto that you live by? Okay, I have two mantras. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Love it. For me.

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S… Speaker 2 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

I had to really make myself uncomfortable to be comfortable. I had to push myself out of my comfort zone to really just learn more, to grow, to, you know, be a better person and also from business-wise too and really had to push myself out of my comfort zone. The next one I would say is...

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Live life to your value. What does that mean? First time hearing that. So for me and something that I've always lived by, I can achieve all these things that I want in my life, right? You always want to go to the next thing and achieve the next thing. But if you're not happy where you are and you're not helping others, then what's the point of doing all the things that you're doing? So that would be my first two.

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Those are really good. And I have to just ask this, too. Tara, if you yourself were a matcha drink, like if a matcha made a certain way and bodied you, what would that matcha be? I thought you were going to ask her a favorite matcha. This is a way harder question.

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S… Speaker 1 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

Okay, so if I were a matcha drink, what would I be? Yeah, I feel like that's a more fun way to go about it. What do you think, John? Okay, can I be a smoothie? You can, yeah, I feel like, yeah. A matcha smoothie? Yeah, you can absolutely be a smoothie. What would you put in it? Leaves? Okay, leaves for sure. I would be a mint matcha smoothie with spirulina. Ooh. Extra green.

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S… Speaker 1 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

Extra green. All the antioxidants. Everything. That's like a meal replacement smoothie. I love that. On the go. That suits your on the go lifestyle. Yes, with a little bit of vegan protein. Chocolate or vanilla. Either or. Alara, do you want to round out the second question? Off the top of your head, is there something that comes to mind that you had to learn the hard way? Oh, wow. Not everyone thinks and does things the way that you do.

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S… Speaker 2 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

I've had to learn from my best friends, from my parents to constantly be like, Tara, you can't expect others to be like you or to think like you or to, you know. So if someone does something and you don't like it or does something that you may have not done it to them, you know, you can't just expect people to be the way you are. You can expect highly of them, but to not get disappointed by it. That's good. Then you'll get disappointed, you know.

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less and, you know, just live life more freely. Yeah, I think that is a hard lesson. People are entitled to make their own bad decisions. That's good. Yes. It's not your life to live. Yeah, they're entitled to do it. Exactly.

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Not ending on that note. You're like, not ending on that note. I'm like, not ending on that. I think we got to go back and do five more fun. I'm here. Whatever question, I'm an open buck, whatever. John and Diana are going to kill me for this. They're going to be like, you're not allowed to do this anymore, but I am going to wrap a dope you guys in. You're going to get into it. Who put her in charge? Okay, here. Ready? Here we go. Sushi night or pasta night?

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Pasta night. Snacks all day or just big meals? Snacks. Structure, routine, or go with the flow? Oof. I'm definitely go with the flow, but I do enjoy a little structure when I can. Do you prefer to host or attend? Host. Sweet or savory? Oh, I'm a dessert girlie. I'm going to go with sweet. All right. This is a fun one. Group chat chaos or one-on-one tea? Group chat chaos for sure.

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We love a good group chat. Okay. Rewatch your comfort show or try something new. Rewatch my comfort show. Elf. Elf. So good. Or Home Alone. Christmas. Christmas movies. Okay.

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S… Speaker 2 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

Literally fall in love with every Christmas movie. I'm like, is it Christmas yet? Can I watch Home Alone yet? Okay, finally. Travel with a plan or wing it? Ooh, it depends where. But, you know, it really depends where. If we're, ah, I'm just going to say wing it, I guess. I like it. Okay, okay. Now this is the last one. This is the last one. Save or splurge? Oh, save for sure.

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S… Speaker 1 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

It's interesting. There's different things. Like on food, I will splurge. Right? On experiences, I will splurge.

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But like when it comes to like wardrobe stuff, I rent my clothes now. So for like because I go to so many events and I wear it once in a picture and then I return it and it's been super helpful for like saving money. And so, yeah, I would definitely depends like what it is. Like if it's good food and quality, then I'm going to spend money on it. But if it's like clothes and stuff that I'm going to wear for once for an event that I'm going to save, you know.

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S… Speaker 2 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

If you were going to spend money on something, would you rather have it be on cute athleisure wear or full glam? Oh, cute athleisure wear all day. I feel like you kind of answered that right before that. All day. Yep. I'm with you there. All right. Being comfy. It's over now. The round of rapid questions. You're welcome. Tara, this has been so fun. Thank you for joining us. Where can people find you and follow your journey?

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S… Speaker 1 (Episode 7 - Tara Fieri(1))

People can find me at Tara Fieri on all platforms. And follow me if you want to have some fun, see a lot of green, a.k.a. matcha, pickleball, and yeah, just living life. And be nice in the comments to her, people. Please. I'm just a girl. Bye.

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