1779796934692
May 26, 2026 12:02
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ཡིག་ཆ་འདི་ཕྱི་ཚེས་ ༡༥ ཉིན་མཇུག་བསྡུ་ནི་ཨིན་མས།
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I co -mediated a case,
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and it was one of those divorces,
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and we spent three hours one night,
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and the wife was telling the husband,
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I know you're having an affair,
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and he denied it,
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and we came back a week later and spent another three hours,
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and after the first hour,
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the husband starts to cry,
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and he says, you know what,
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I'm done.
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I just want to tell the truth.
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And he says,
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I am having an affair,
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and it is with your best friend,
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and it's the best thing that ever happened to me.
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He's crying.
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She's crying.
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My co -mediator passes me a note saying,
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okay,
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let's, you know.
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But that's enough for tonight.
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You know,
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let these people go home,
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right?
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And my instinct was,
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are you kidding?
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We've worked four hours for these two folks to finally be willing to be honest with each
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other. Yes,
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it's crying.
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Yes, it's painful.
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It's full of emotion.
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But let's stay in the game and see where it goes.
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So I share that because if my co -mediator had been there alone,
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he was so uncomfortable with the emotion that he would
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have said, I don't want to...
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facilitate a process that has
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this much pain in the room,
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this much tragedy,
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this much grief,
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and that they need to do that somewhere else and then come back and talk.
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But right now,
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this is just too raw.
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And that was his instinct.
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My instinct was,
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no, no, no,
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this is good.
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This is what happens when people are honest with each other.
ཡིག་སྒྱུར་འདི་ བཅོས་མའི་བློ་རིག་ (སྒྲ་ངོས་འཛིན་བྱེད་པའི་འཕྲུལ་རིག་) གིས་བཟོ་སྟེ་ཡོདཔ་ཨིན། ནང་ལུ་འཛོལ་བ་ཡོད་སྲིད་པ་ལ་ གལ་སྲིད་ཁག་ཆེ་བའི་དོན་ལས་ ངོ་མཚར་སྒྲ་སྐད་དང་བསྡུར་ཞིབ་དཔྱད་འབད་དགོཔ་ཨིན། བཅོས་མའི་བློ་རིག་གི་སྲིད་བྱུས་
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