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I would like you to answer.

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Yes.

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So what has inspired you to become a psychologist

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or a counselor?

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So

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I was in college doing my graduation.

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I had subjects,

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home science,

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history,

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English literature.

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So when I was studying home science,

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I had a lecturer who told me,

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you are very good in child development.

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So why don't you go for psychology?

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So she was the one who inspired me and I took psychology

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in my MA.

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I never had it in my graduation.

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So I had to go to Jodhpur University to do my

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MA psychology because they were ready to give me admission

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in MA without graduation in psychology.

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Okay.

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Alright.

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So the next question is what qualifications and trainings are required

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in this field?

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See, if you want to become a school counselor,

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then you need to do MA Psychology and

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a PG Diploma in Guidance and Counseling from NCR.

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Okay.

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Diploma

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in Child Guidance and Counseling.

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So,

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one can do that also now.

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Not just depend on NCR,

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PNPC,

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but you can do it.

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There are many institutes.

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offering RCI recognized diploma in

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child guidance and counseling.

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Alright.

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Can you describe a typical day in your work?

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Okay,

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so now I am a freelance trainer come counseling psychologist.

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Okay.

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So when I go for my trainings,

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my day is I travel a lot because

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not only in Denny,

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I go out of Denny also.

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So when I go for my training,

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whether it is a career counseling or it is a teacher training or

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it is a parenting session.

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So it depends.

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Like sometimes when I'm going out,

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maybe I have to reach a day prior and then I take

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my training.

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So training is mostly three hours training.

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So I enjoy my training.

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I start my training sessions with a prayer and then,

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you know, I make them do some warm -up activity and then

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I start my training,

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which is very activity -based and very engaging.

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So, teachers really,

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you know,

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love to get trained by me.

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Okay.

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What is the difference between a

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psychologist and a counsellor?

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Yeah,

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so see,

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if you talk about psychologists,

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You know,

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clinical psychologist.

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Then for clinical psychologist,

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you have to have MA psychology and

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earlier it used to be MPhil.

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Okay.

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And basically the clinical psychologist can do

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the diagnosis and the clinical psychologist will use

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various therapies.

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Whereas the counseling psychologist is dealing

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with normal children.

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Having maybe some career concern or some adolescent issues

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or, you know,

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subject related guidance or little bit of emotional

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disturbance.

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So the counselor is dealing with normal therapy.

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But clinical psychologist,

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their psychologist is dealing with the children or

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the adults who have got some...

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de -printed problems and maybe I would say

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mental issues like maybe anxiety,

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stress,

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depression or maybe hallucination sometimes.

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So it is more about,

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you know,

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the mental illness.

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Okay.

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Alright.

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So this is like from your experience,

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what are some of the biggest challenges you face in your work?

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So,

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the biggest challenge is,

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you know,

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if I talk of children having some disability or

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something, then the parents

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are in denial mode.

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They will never accept that their child has a problem.

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At times it is that child has got some other strength but

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maybe academically he can't cope up.

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But you know they are in the denial so it is very difficult to

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explain them that your child has got different kind

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of intelligence but he won't be able to cope up with the

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studies so much.

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Okay, so this is one challenge.

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Second challenge is at times,

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you know, people feel that counsellor has got a

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quick fix solution.

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Yeah,

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you have gone to a counsellor,

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he will give you a solution and your problem will be solved.

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It is known this way.

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You know,

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counsellor is a person who helps a person to help himself.

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He is just empowering the person.

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with the skills so that he can help himself right so

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this you know basically we sit with the client

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and we both try to explore what are

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the concerns what interventions are required

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whether you have to

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talk on the change in the daily routine or lifestyle or

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it is some academic issues so accordingly you know you have to have

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that counseling process not necessary it will be over in one session

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or two sessions so that is a major change a challenge you know that

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people think doctor ke paas kai ba jate hain aur bimari ek baar

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mein doctor na dawa di hain aur ap he ho jate hain

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But, you know,

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the counseling is a process,

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you know.

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So,

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it doesn't get over in one session.

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Sometimes even five,

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six sessions are required.

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So,

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that is the challenge.

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Okay.

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Now,

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I would like to know about some common issues among students or

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teenagers.

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Yeah.

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So, if I talk of common issues,

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see,

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there is a lot of pressures,

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you know,

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in the...

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Because their body is changing and they

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are concerned about their academic grades.

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Not only they are concerned,

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their parents,

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their relatives,

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everybody is,

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you know, pressurizing them for getting good scores.

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Then they are also,

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you know,

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facing some...

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body issues,

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okay,

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then we are so much on social media,

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so there is a lot of peer pressure from social media also.

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So,

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you know, and this is the time to,

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you know,

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take the right stream,

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then he has to make the career choice.

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So, all these are pressures that adolescent is facing.

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And he is becoming a little irritable also because

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of his hormonal changes.

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So there is a lot of disagreement with the parents also.

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Okay.

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So parents and adolescent child generally they

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don't get along well.

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Because the child is not understanding the parent's

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perspective and parent is not understanding the child's perspective.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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So one issue is.

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Yeah.

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So,

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like,

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about the academics,

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so what,

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how can teenagers,

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like, manage anxieties before exams or presentations,

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public speakings and something like that?

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Yeah, what do you mean?

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Yeah.

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Planning is the most important thing.

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If you start to work on time,

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then you will not have so much anxiety.

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But,

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you know, children,

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generally what they do is they don't realize the importance of

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time.

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Yeah.

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They won't understand that whatever time they have lost is lost

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forever.

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So if they want their preparation in the month of

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January or February and think of getting good marks in the month of

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March,

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then it's not possible.

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You know,

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you have to take timely action.

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So little,

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little, little progress every day gives you best results.

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So they have to,

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as soon as the session starts,

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they have to start planning,

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moving their time.

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They have to,

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you know,

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make a schedule,

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timetable,

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and all that,

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you know.

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Shuru se thoda padhna hai,

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thoda thoda karke sab subjects mein,

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jo apne learning gaps,

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unko identify karna hai.

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So that is how they are going to do well.

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Okay.

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Okay, so the next question is some early signs that

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a teen can look for like

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which indicates that he might need professional help.

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So suppose the child comes

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to me with a complaint,

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I'm overthinking.

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My thoughts won't stop.

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And those thoughts are negative most of the time.

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You know,

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whether I will pass or not,

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I will go into IIT or not,

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and whether I will be able to fulfill the expectation

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of my parents.

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What if I don't get a good job?

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I'm in good college,

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good subjects.

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All these are the pressures the child is facing.

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So,

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what was your question?

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I forgot.

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Some early signs that a teen might need professionally.

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Then the child says,

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I'm not able to sleep well at night.

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I get up at 3 o 'clock in the morning.

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After that,

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I'm not able to sleep.

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Then my appetite also.

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Sometimes I eat a lot.

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Sometimes I'm not able to eat.

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I've lost interest in everything.

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You know,

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even I'm not able to study.

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I'm not able to see too much TV also.

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I've lost interest in everything.

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And I feel my energy is draining out.

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Right.

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I sometimes feel even the memory lapse is there.

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Sometimes I feel the tingling in my fingers and

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foot and all that.

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So these are the symptoms generally.

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Okay.

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Also some simple daily

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habits that can improve mental well -being.

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Yes.

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So first habit is engage yourself.

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Okay.

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So by engaging your mind in some constructive thoughts

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and constructive action and physical engagement,

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okay?

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Going for gym,

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going for yoga,

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going for sports,

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activity,

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anything,

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you know, physical activity,

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jumping,

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cycling,

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all these physical activities.

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So if the child is engaged in the

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body, we'll release with the physical activity.

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Okay,

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okay.

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So...

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Basically, the chemicals get imbalanced.

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So,

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with exercise,

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he has to balance the chemicals and he has to be a positive thinker.

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Whatever problems are coming,

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he doesn't need to be focused on problems,

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but he has to be focused on actions.

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Yeah.

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What actions to take to solve my problem?

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That is there.

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Okay?

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Okay.

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Alright,

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can you share a situation where you made a positive

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impact?

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Yeah,

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so there was a child,

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you know, he had gone to a psychiatrist and he

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was almost,

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I think, 18 or 19 years and his parents

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came to me from Bihar.

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Yeah,

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so psychiatrist had referred to me for counselling.

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So the parents told me that this child,

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you know.

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not ready to study.

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We tried a lot.

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We changed the school.

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We did this and that.

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And ultimately,

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they went to a psychiatrist,

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got him some medicines and what.

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Then,

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you know, I told the parents,

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okay,

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why you are pressurizing him for so much academics?

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See,

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doctors have already written that,

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you know, he's a mentally retarded

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child.

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Okay.

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So we call them special children.

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Okay.

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I told the parents,

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have you identified what are his sisters?

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They told me,

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anything else

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that you feel he enjoys?

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They said,

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yes, he enjoys music.

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So then I told them,

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why don't you do one thing?

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Because now you know that he has lost hope.

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He can't cope up with the studies.

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So you have to channelize his energies

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in the other direction.

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So,

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you know, they took him to a garage and

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then there he started working,

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getting himself engaged with,

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you know, repairing cars and all that.

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and that is all he started building confidence his

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parents also

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started having confidence and faith in him that

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he can also do something.

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Then he started learning music also.

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So that is how I help the child.

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And he's really happy now.

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The parents are also happy.

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Wow,

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that was really amazing.

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Okay,

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some ethical rules which should be followed by a psychologist.

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Yeah,

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so first rule is...

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First,

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work ethic is confidentiality.

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Okay,

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so whatever problem the child comes with,

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generally,

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we try to keep it confidential.

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But in some cases,

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it is mandatory to report.

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You can't keep things confidential at times.

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Suppose it is a bullying case,

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you can't keep it confidential.

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Because if the person who is bullying is not caught,

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then what will happen?

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He'll keep bullying others or he'll repeat his bullying actions.

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The second is self -harm.

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If you know that the child is trying to commit suicide or

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has cut his wrist,

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you can't keep it confidential.

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If you know the child has undergone some child sexual abuse,

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then you can't keep it confidential.

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Reporting is must,

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mandatory.

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Okay.

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So,

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work ethic is yes.

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Second thing is,

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you can't be too emotionally attached with your client.

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You have to maintain a distance also.

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So,

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you have to detach as well as attach.

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Okay, so this detachment is very necessary and

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then termination of the counselling.

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Yeah,

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this is also a thing that you can't suddenly say,

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no, there is a proper procedure

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of telling that okay,

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now this one,

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yeah, we won't continue further with the session.

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And another work ethic is not every problem

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can be solved by the counsellor.

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Counselor has to refer the case.

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Sometimes a child may be having some special problems

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which you are not able to handle or something psychiatric

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related issues which you can't handle.

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So you have to see where you have to.

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Suppose child has got some injury in the brain

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or something.

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Then you know you can't handle everything.

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So you have to refer.

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That is the word.

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Okay.

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Now I have a few career related questions.

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So the first one is,

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what subjects should students focus on if they want

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to pursue psychology?

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Yeah,

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so if they want to pursue psychology,

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they can do B .S .C.

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psychology as well as they can do B .A.

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psychology.

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Okay.

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So if you want to do B .S .C.

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psychology,

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suppose you want to go in neuropsychology,

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you want to do forensic psychology.

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then maybe you are interested in doing BSc psychology.

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So,

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in that case,

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you take science,

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BC, BCB,

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physics, chemistry,

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biology.

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And if you can take Psychology,

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then take Psychology also in the 11th and 12th.

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Okay.

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And if you want to do BA Psychology,

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then also you can take Psychology in your 11th and 12th.

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And later on,

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you can do BA Psychology,

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Applied Psychology.

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Okay.

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So,

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this is how you have to go about if you want to study

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Psychology.

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Once you have done your graduation,

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then comes your specialization.

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So it depends what fields interest you.

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You can become a rehabilitation psychologist.

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You can become a school counselor.

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You can become a clinical psychologist.

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You can become a forensic psychologist,

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neuropsychologist.

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You can work with drug addict children or you

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can become an organizational psychologist,

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corporate trainer.

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So many openings are there for counselors.

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Okay.

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Okay, so my last question,

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what advice would you give to someone considering this

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profession?

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Yeah,

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so my advice is this is not a profession where

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you need to provide all through your knowledge.

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So sometimes children just take the

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subject without realizing whether they have the

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skills that are required to practice as a counselor.

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In any setting,

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you know.

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So,

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the first thing is you should be at an tablish.

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You have to have empathy.

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You have to have very good communication skills.

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You have to be a good organization,

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good at organization,

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good at planning.

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So,

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you know,

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basically that human touch,

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your positive attitude,

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you know,

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all these things are important and good knowledge

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in how you deliver that knowledge.

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You know, it's about understanding the other person's feeling.

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Your own EQ has to be very strong.

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Emotional coaching.

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How you regulate your emotion.

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How you manage your emotion.

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Yeah?

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And also EQ is about understanding other people.

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So EQ is required if you want

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to become a psychologist.

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Okay.

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All right,

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ma 'am.

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