Audio de la vidéo DAB 3

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When my dad was diagnosed,

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it was bittersweet because I thought it would come to an end.

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But I was still struggling because the only thing I knew was my dad.

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If someone had told me,

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by the time your dad passes away,

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it's going to hurt more than you'll ever know because you were losing your best friend,

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I would have said you're crazy.

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But that's what happened.

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Hey.

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What?

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Figured out why you like junk.

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What?

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Why you like to fix things.

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Why you make something out of nothing all the time.

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They got a word for that.

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What's that word?

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It's redemption.

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Redemption.

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Yeah.

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Hey.

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Hey,

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what is this note here?

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Right there.

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What's that note?

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G.

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What's that note?

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C.

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C.

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All right.

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G to C.

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Get some competition now,

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boy.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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The biggest kind of moment where

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I realized I've kind of got an amazing dad was by my junior,

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senior year.

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It was when he started kind of going downhill and hospice kind of moved in.

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We had a hospice nurse during the day.

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We had a hospice nurse at night.

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The night hospice nurse was the guy that my dad really got close to.

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He was a really cool dude.

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He got killed in a car accident.

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And it was really traumatic for my dad.

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And my dad was like,

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I can't do it again.

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Like, don't give me another nurse.

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I can't go through this.

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The hospice nurse,

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she stayed in place,

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and then she kind of broke the rules and was like,

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I'm just going to report you need only a day nurse.

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And then she taught me how to give him his medicine as a senior in high school.

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I would sit with my dad from about 2 to 4 in the morning every night and do

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this.

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My

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dad and I had these unbelievable conversations from who I should or shouldn't be

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dating to what's going to happen after he's gone to apologizing

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and wanting forgiveness for all the things he had done.

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And there's nothing I look forward to more than being my dad for those couple

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hours.

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Every ounce of wisdom that you were supposed to get from your father,

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it was like we were in the fast lane,

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like catching up for lost time.

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That's when it kind of clicked,

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and I realized that this is truly a godly man.

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Better late than never.

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The

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reason I say my dad's a godliest man is because I've seen what I would consider godly men throughout

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my life that were one thing in public and not the

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same thing in private.

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The humility of being the godliest man for me is someone that

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never wanted the spotlight.

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It really had no personal gain for the change that took place.

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And so one,

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I was like, this has to be real.

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But then to see the one place where he didn't have to go the extra mile and

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go through what he went through as far as just pursuing Christ was behind closed

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doors.

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Of

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course, I've been around enough to see people that go through change,

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but there's an agenda there.

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Maybe I can sell more records or write more books or whatever.

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My dad had nothing like that to gain from this.

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He didn't try to cash in.

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He didn't try to make it an angle.

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He just tried to love me as well as he possibly could in the time he had,

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and that was it.

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The way he treated me when no one else was looking

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was probably the biggest reason that I believed that it was incredibly real.

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God did something huge in his life,

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and from that alone,

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I would say that he's still one of the gods we ever knew.

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Like the last couple of months or whatever,

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he was in and out of consciousness for a while.

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And the only times my dad would wake up is when they tried to move him and he would yell for

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me. I'd hold him up in my arms until they would change

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the sheets, fix his bed,

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and we'd reposition him.

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I just remember this one moment when he was,

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you know, kind of yelling for me and I picked him up and he was kind of whimpering like a kid.

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And I caught ourselves in a full mirror across the room of

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me holding my dad.

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He's holding both arms around my neck,

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and he's holding on a dear life,

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and he finally falls back asleep in my arms.

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I became so overwhelmed with emotion of,

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I finally got the dad I wanted,

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and there's not much time left.

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The

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discussion we had where he literally kind of told me,

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you know, I thought you shouldn't chase your dreams.

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I thought you should just get a job and keep your head down and don't get out of line.

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And he was like,

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I was wrong.

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He goes, if you do whatever you can,

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just chase your dreams.

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Don't let anybody stop you.

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wherever it takes you just be able to when it's all said and done to say you tried.

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He

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had a pension fund not much over the years of working for the state highway department and

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he's like look here's the deal you and your brother will get a check each 600

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bucks a month for 10 years.

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That's the best I can do to try to look out for you and you kind of chase

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after this dream and then when it runs out yeah I don't know how but somehow I'll be looking

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out for you still and I was like okay great awesome.

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Fast forward 10 years,

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we had just had our first child.

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I had an interview I had to do,

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so I went into my office,

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I'm holding my newborn,

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I'm on hold,

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waiting for the DJ to come on live,

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and my wife walks in and says,

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this is the last check.

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You know,

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I don't care who you are,

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600 bucks gone from your monthly deal and you have a newborn is kind of,

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oh no,

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what are we doing?

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You know, that's a big chunk.

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And she goes,

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we have a newborn child.

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This is our last check.

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What are we going to do?

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And she walks off.

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And then as I'm standing there stressing out,

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they come on the air.

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And he's like,

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hey, you know, I know you've got a lot going on,

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but we should be the first to congratulate you that I can imagine is number one.

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And

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immediately I thought of my dad saying,

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when the checks run out,

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I'll somehow be able to look out for you.

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And I started sobbing uncontrollably.

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Normally, even though it's cool to have a number one song,

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you wouldn't start crying on the air.

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And so I remember the DJ going,

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it's going to be okay.

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Like, wow, you're really excited about this.

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Like, no, you don't understand.

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You don't understand.

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I'm holding my newborn,

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my dad.

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I'm trying to explain the whole thing.

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And then by the time I'm done,

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he's sobbing with me.

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I said,

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now my dad,

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who thought he'd be forgotten two seconds after he dies,

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is eternally attached to this song that's changed everything.

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My dad thought that he'd be forgotten about two seconds after he's gone.

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Yeah,

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and here we are almost 25 years,

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26 years later,

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and it's Dennis Quaid's playing my dad.

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That's a little weird.

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And my dad would be flipping out if he were here.

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The

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story of my dad and the redemption,

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this whole thing,

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is a massive part of my faith.

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If I'm considered ever a godly man at all,

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it's because those handful of years I had with him,

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seeing the transformation take place.

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You know, if the gospel can change him,

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it can change anybody.

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If I face things that seem insurmountable,

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and it just seems out of control,

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it's like,

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man,

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there's nothing in my life more insurmountable than what my Father is doing to me.

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It's not just that it stopped.

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He went a little bit further and became like the godliest man I knew.

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That's Paul kind of junk of like Paul killing Christians and then becoming,

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you know, the cornerstone of faith is like what to me in my life personally,

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that's what it feels like.

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And so, gosh,

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it's a huge,

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huge part of what I believe in my faith and why I am what I am

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now.

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