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   Chapter 1: So. Really, this webinar is all around healing, but the number one mistake that I see in healing and how to avoid it. 318s · Speaker 2

   So. Really, this webinar is all around healing, but the number one mistake that I see in healing and how to avoid it. I'll be covering different topics about what is healing. And again, this is what my personal opinion on healing. The defin…

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   Chapter 2: You're no longer projecting onto somebody else your core wounds or wounds in general. 310s · Speaker 1

   You're no longer projecting onto somebody else your core wounds or wounds in general. There's a discernment of I am living a current life and not living or reliving a past experience or a past memory with a different person. And you have a …

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   Chapter 3: And so I'll actually get into that. 325s · Speaker 1

   And so I'll actually get into that. We, the number one mistake that we actually do in healing is that we heal from the place we are currently at and not from the place that we desire to be. And what I mean by that is we heal from a situatio…

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   Chapter 4: Or when somebody's healed from leprosy and discovers there's poison ivy, that doesn't mean that he wasn't healed. 326s · Speaker 1

   Or when somebody's healed from leprosy and discovers there's poison ivy, that doesn't mean that he wasn't healed. He just, the learning curve of there are things that in this world that I didn't realize cause certain type of skin reactions …

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   Chapter 5: it was awkward yeah foreign totally valid new different um and yeah you have to consciously make it go on top and so really that this um the feelings that you guys have and what it felt like um is different right like it's not natural it's totally something that you have to like think about um And no doubt it's uncomfortable. 269s · Reading Comments from Chat

   it was awkward yeah foreign totally valid new different um and yeah you have to consciously make it go on top and so really that this um the feelings that you guys have and what it felt like um is different right like it's not natural it's …

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   Chapter 6: i have a question for the video on this but um how do i ask this question so for me i think i've like i've done the work in kind of healing and therapy um from a lot of sort of childhood wounds, abandonment, rejection, identity stuff. 159s · Speaker 2

   i have a question for the video on this but um how do i ask this question so for me i think i've like i've done the work in kind of healing and therapy um from a lot of sort of childhood wounds, abandonment, rejection, identity stuff. Like …

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   Chapter 7: there was a guy that I was messaging back and forth with and I just like didn't feel it um and I was like hey you know thanks for the conversation um I wish you well thank you yeah but I will also say um I invite you to pivot from like, yes, you deserve more than that, but be like detailed of I am looking for somebody who's going to initiate video calls. 72s · Speaker 1

   there was a guy that I was messaging back and forth with and I just like didn't feel it um and I was like hey you know thanks for the conversation um I wish you well thank you yeah but I will also say um I invite you to pivot from like, yes…

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   Chapter 8: I just think there's like. 302s · Speaker 3

   I just think there's like. seeing what you presented i think just like it just allows me to have more grace like i know for me personally i can be really hard on myself um and we're all a work in progress you know so i think it just reitera…

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   Chapter 9: um and give yourself a roadmap for it um so if you're interested um i'm going to send out a link for a discovery call and this is just something that um i want to make sure that it fits for you if you have any questions and we can dialogue and interact about it um um yeah but it's eight weeks um and it would be something where Wherever you feel stuck, you actually can get out of that place and move forward. 111s · Speaker 1

   um and give yourself a roadmap for it um so if you're interested um i'm going to send out a link for a discovery call and this is just something that um i want to make sure that it fits for you if you have any questions and we can dialogue …

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    Chapter 10: Yeah, I'm good. 80s · Speaker 4

    Yeah, I'm good. I was thinking of a question, but I don't really have one yet. That's coming to my mind. Just being in the dating process, seriously, I think it is. allowing myself as the other person said the grace to be different to chang…

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    Chapter 11: it takes so much out of us um but it's such good work and so worth it so Victor I see that you don't have anything um but. 162s · Speaker 1

    it takes so much out of us um but it's such good work and so worth it so Victor I see that you don't have anything um but. So if you guys don't have anything else, that's what I have for today. If you guys want to share a light bulb moment,…

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    Chapter 12: melanie to add on to that too i think um i really liked what you said when um antoinette asked the question like you know of how to deal with that situation that she's in and then you said to get closure within yourself of like I didn't like this and I need and want this because I think I know for me in the past I haven't done that and then I've had closure later but like when you're in that process you've got the closure and you're already you're getting that closure in the moment which is good and I think it kind of goes back to what you just said about like we're also interviewing people we're like it's not just them interested in us we're we also have the responsibility to be interested in them you know it's not just a one-sided thing yeah the thing with dating is like we forget like we want so badly for somebody to like choose us and like to do life with us and like to want them to be our person um but like zooming out it's like I don't know this person like I don't even know if this person can handle you know my personality the way I laugh like you know like when I get delirious because I'm zero hours of sleep like we forget that portion of it of like, can I spend umpteen hours with this person and not get irritated? 114s · Speaker 3

    melanie to add on to that too i think um i really liked what you said when um antoinette asked the question like you know of how to deal with that situation that she's in and then you said to get closure within yourself of like I didn't lik…

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    Chapter 13: dating with no pressure like just taking off the pressure and having fun just enjoying sort of getting to know someone either chatting video or in person but where do you find the balance with taking the pressure off and just having fun with it to kind of I know what I want I know what I don't want so like communicating that clearly do you know what I mean yes so um I don't say yes to somebody that I know is a complete no. 304s · Speaker 2

    dating with no pressure like just taking off the pressure and having fun just enjoying sort of getting to know someone either chatting video or in person but where do you find the balance with taking the pressure off and just having fun wit…

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    Chapter 14: you that's nerve-wracking but okay it's nerve-wracking about it it's just never done it before so or it feels different a conscious awareness yeah okay thank you very much welcome the funny thing with dating just in general is rejection shows up in that way of like if I'm not very direct and I kind of like leave it to the other person and I'm like passive about it then I don't get rejected right but the flip side of that is okay but I didn't also get what I wanted but that's because you didn't ask so yeah assertive is key and then there's a way to be assertive and I sort of in the way that Melanie, because I feel like for me, and I don't know if anyone else feels this way, but I feel like it's hard for me at times to be assertive yet in my feminine like I feel like it's like assertive or like it's really hard for me to be like assertive yet in my feminine if that makes sense that totally makes sense um maybe this will help you on how to do that um there's a guy on Instagram that I've had to like call every so often But it was really, so I just decided to be like flirty. 172s

    you that's nerve-wracking but okay it's nerve-wracking about it it's just never done it before so or it feels different a conscious awareness yeah okay thank you very much welcome the funny thing with dating just in general is rejection sho…

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    Chapter 15: I mean I have a first date this Sunday and I'm like kind of nervous about it but is it in person or a video call it's in person yeah but I think it'll be good deep breaths deep breaths yeah no it's just funny because I feel like I was surprised talking about assertive like he came off really like like nervous like he'd say stuff that was confident but being like like if I didn't respond right away like almost like taking it back like I'm sorry if that was too forward but I'm like I'm not on this app all day you know like yeah so he'd be like he'd say something forward and then be like And then I just was like, just own it with like a winky face. 90s · Speaker 3

    I mean I have a first date this Sunday and I'm like kind of nervous about it but is it in person or a video call it's in person yeah but I think it'll be good deep breaths deep breaths yeah no it's just funny because I feel like I was surpr…

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    Chapter 16: Just reading your guys' comments. 73s · Speaker 1

    Just reading your guys' comments. All right. Yeah. So I'll send the replay link and then it'll be good for two weeks. And then I'll also send a link if you are interested in the eight-week program to set up a discovery call. So that's somet…

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    Chapter 17: Have a great week. 1s · Speaker 2

    Have a great week.