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relaying through the temporal lobes that is masculine
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conflicts of territory protection and provision or
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Feminine conflicts of sexuality,
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identity,
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and belonging are extremely widespread in the
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Western world right now.
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Dr.
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Hamer was grateful that he looked at CAT scans before the 1990s,
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because after the 90s,
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not one in a hundred people didn't have some kind of temporal lobe
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conflict going on,
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and usually more than one of them.
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So if you're part of Western civilization in the 21st century,
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you've almost certainly got one or two of these going on.
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Possibly quite a few more.
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And the temporal lobe conflicts are always underpinned
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with a self -devaluation conflict of not being able
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to demarcate the territory.
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Or,
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put more simply,
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temporal lobe conflicts are about not being able to say
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no.
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Nature makes no mistakes.
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God does not play dice.
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Instead,
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all of creation springs forth according to a few simple,
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elegant rules.
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All of creation,
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including your body.
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Know these rules and your body comes under your control.
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Welcome to Mind Over Symptom,
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where the pattern is revealed.
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In the temporal lobes of your cerebral cortex,
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there are eight relays that have to do with boundaries.
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In Germanische Heilkunde,
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we know which relays are active with special biological
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programs that have to do with boundaries because of the body symptoms
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and behavior symptoms that arise when these conflicts are active,
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as well as when they're in the healing phase.
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Symptoms from the right temporal lobe include bronchial symptoms,
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coronary artery symptoms,
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stomach,
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pancreatic duct,
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liver duct,
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and gall duct symptoms,
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and urinary tract symptoms on the left side
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of the urinary tract.
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Symptoms from the left temporal lobe include larynx
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symptoms,
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coronary vein and uterine cervix symptoms,
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symptoms in the lining of the rectum,
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and urinary tract symptoms on the right side.
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If we're having symptoms in those tissues of the body,
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then we're having biological conflicts related to not having good boundaries,
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or we're having boundary problems.
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But there are also mental,
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emotional, and behavioral symptoms that come from these same biological
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conflicts in the temporal lobes.
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First,
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if there's any conflict on the right temporal lobe,
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so affecting the bronchi,
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coronary artery,
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stomach, or the ducts of the liver,
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gallbladder, or pancreas,
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or the left side of the urinary tract,
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there's going to be depression.
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And the more intense the conflict,
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the more severe the depression is going to be.
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Conversely,
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if there's any conflict on the left temporal lobe,
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that's larynx,
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coronary vein,
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and uterine cervix,
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or the rectum lining,
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or the right side of the urinary tract,
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There's going to be mania and compulsive or controlling impulses,
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risk -taking and so on.
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But we also have special psychological symptoms that come up if
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we have a constellation of at least one active temporal
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lobe conflict in each temporal lobe.
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So these combinations of two or more temporal lobe
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conflicts produce flying constellation,
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that's feeling out of body or dissociating.
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Manic depression,
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or what in GNM we call the post -mortal constellation.
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For women,
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there's always nymphomania or nymphodepression with that.
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And for men,
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if the territorial loss involved a sexual partner,
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there will be Casanova constellation.
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That's sort of the male corollary of nymphomania.
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He'll be a womanizer.
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Aggressive constellation,
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or what we in GNM call the biomanic constellation.
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We can also be aggressive against ourselves.
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That's the biodepressive constellation.
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It's a feeling of severe guilt.
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We can have demarcation constellation.
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That produces incontinence,
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frequent urination,
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and bedwetting,
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but it also produces the behaviors and compulsions diagnosed as
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OCD,
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obsessive -compulsive disorder.
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There's autistic constellation.
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It produces a spectrum of behaviors from workaholism to
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catatonia.
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And then there's the opposite of autistic constellation.
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That's mythomania or mythodepression.
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A flood of writing,
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talking, and fawning and people -pleasing.
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The joker in the room.
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If we have a temporal lobe constellation before we
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are emotionally mature,
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we'll be developmentally arrested until there's no more temporal
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lobe constellation.
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So that's why boundary problems
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are also problematic.
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Problems of immaturity.
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They go hand in hand.
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And also at the heart of cluster B behavior
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disorders is also a constellation.
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I call it the psychopathy or narcissism constellation.
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It's a three -way constellation.
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and it produces a lack of empathy and a loss of contact with the self.
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It turns people into liars,
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vicious liars.
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We can also have constellations from the temporal lobes that
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combine a temporal lobe conflict with a conflict in a different part
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of the cerebral cortex that's not in the temporal lobe.
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For example,
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the bulimia constellation involves a stomach relay in the right
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temporal lobe,
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and the low blood sugar relay,
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the glucagon relay,
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on the left side of the frontal cortex.
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So that was a list of many of the symptoms that
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come from,
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or at least involve,
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one or both of the temporal lobes of your
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cerebral cortex.
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And every one of them starts with,
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or involves,
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not having good boundaries.
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And as you've observed,
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this is so prevalent in the world right now,
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it would be considered abnormal not to have one of
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these conditions.
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In fact,
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having good boundaries is often perceived as
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abnormal by the rest of us who don't have good boundaries.
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Why are boundary problems such a big deal?
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Well, not one in a hundred of us doesn't have at least one of these special biological
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programs, usually two or more in constellation with each other going
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on at any given time,
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because we're living in a time when most people have
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poor boundaries,
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at least in certain contexts.
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Now, while it's understandable that most of us have poor boundaries,
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after all,
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most of us have been raised in a society that values collectivism
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and puts value on sacrificing our own interests for the benefit of
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others,
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So of course we haven't had good boundaries modeled for us,
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and we've probably even been punished or abused or lost relationships
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whenever we have asserted or had expectations around boundaries.
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We've probably been taught that people who have good boundaries are
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actually aggressive and bad,
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selfish.
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The reason it's important to get good boundaries and solve our temporal
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lobe conflicts is that these conflicts profoundly affect
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our happiness,
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our relationship,
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and our sense of self,
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not to mention the physical health symptoms that go along with temporal lobe conflicts.
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As long as we have these kinds of biological conflicts active
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in our psyches,
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we can't grow up,
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we can't form interdependent relationships based on trust and mutual respect,
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and we live in a state of constantly feeling like either a
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victim, a villain,
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or a rescuer.
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That makes us get pushed off course by every external
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event that enters our consciousness.
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Because when we're in temporal lobe conflicts,
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especially when we've got a constellation of two or more of them going on at the
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same time, we are not in touch with reality.
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It's not actually a healthy way to live.
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It is an emergency response,
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and it needs to be temporary.
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As I said,
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this is the norm for most of us today,
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though.
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But it doesn't mean we're doomed to chaos and constant drama in our lives.
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It just means we have to get good at boundaries,
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which is the evolutionary purpose of all temporal lobe conflicts.
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That's the fifth biological law of the Germanic New Medicine.
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Fortunately,
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although the symptoms of not having good boundaries are complex,
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actually having good boundaries isn't complicated
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at all.
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Having good boundaries means being able to sense and state,
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no n o no all
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we have to learn is what to say no about and how to
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find and respect the right no's so
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what is a boundary a boundary in biological terms is
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a boundary around territory and saying no
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means asserting territory now territory is neither
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physical nor is it the opposite it's not just a metaphorical or figurative
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concept in germanic healing knowledge territory is
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biological territory is the masculine principle
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of caring so much about something or someone that
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you would give your life to provide for and protect it
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Your masculine territory includes your loved ones as well as everything that
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provides security and nourishment for your loved ones.
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Things that you could experience as your territory might include your job
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or your company,
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people, maybe even literal resources like buildings,
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bank accounts,
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and so on.
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Territory,
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although it's biological,
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isn't those things.
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Territory exists only in your
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psyche, and I'm not saying it's your imagination,
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but it is not a physical thing.
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And,
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as I've said,
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territory is masculine.
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What that means is you only have and care
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about territory if you're in what we call masculine hormonal
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status.
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That means you're biologically male or you're a pregnant
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or nursing woman or you have a very young child or
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a woman who is in menopause.
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For everyone else,
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what we're experiencing as territory...
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is a compulsion produced by at least one temporal lobe conflict,
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and we're going to immediately lose interest in that as territory as
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soon as the conflict is solved in our psyche,
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because there is no such thing as
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feminine territory.
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There are feminine temporal lobe conflicts,
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but there is no such thing as feminine territory.
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Technically,
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the temporal lobe conflicts on one side of your brain are masculine,
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and those on the other side are feminine.
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Which temporal relays are masculine and which are feminine depends
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on your biological sex and your laterality.
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This is important because actually half the temporal lobe conflicts are feminine.
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We call them territorial conflicts,
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but half of them are not territorial.
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They are about territorial in a tangential sense,
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and I'll get to that shortly.
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But half the temporal lobe conflicts are feminine.
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That means they're not territorial because the feminine doesn't devote to
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providing for and protecting the territory.
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But the feminine very much depends on the existence
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of secure territory.
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So the feminine doesn't go around saying no and asserting boundaries.
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That's masculine.
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Then what does having good boundaries mean to
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the feminine?
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The feminine needs to feel the boundaries of the territory.
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The feminine needs there to be a secure territory held
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and protected by the masculine.
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And when the feminine has good boundaries,
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she can feel the no,
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which enables the feminine to create the yes within what is secure,
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loving and true.
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We can only be vulnerable and in contact with reality when
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we can relax and feel safe.
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And we can only do that when we know that boundaries,
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limits or structure
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The no's are absolutely dependable.
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Consider a three -year -old child laughing,
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playing, doing art,
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chattering with her friends,
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building stuff in parallel,
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play with his buddies.
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This can't happen without clear structure limits,
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safety, and no's.
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Now put that same three -year -old child in the room with adults who are having an argument.
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Or put the child alone in an empty parking lot in the middle of a
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crime -ridden zone,
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decaying part of the city.
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The feeling's very,
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very different.
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The child's no longer happily playing.
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They're not creating.
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They're not relating with others.
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That's what lack of boundaries means to the feminine.
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If you can't relax,
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your biology never stops initiating DHSs in special
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biological programs.
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It'll use whatever's going on.
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You'll have a DHS and a biological conflict and a
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special biological program because the sky was the wrong color this morning.
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While the masculine must secure territory in order to
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feel purposeful and meaningful,
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the feminine can only flourish if there is a secure container that
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we can count on to always be there for us,
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providing guidance and being there for us no matter what.
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So,
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for the masculine,
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having good boundaries means asserting the no.
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And for the feminine,
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having good boundaries means moving away from anything in which the limits
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or structures,
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the no's,
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can't be felt or discerned.
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The feminine doesn't create clear boundaries,
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but the feminine will not engage unless there are clear
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boundaries.
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And she'll tell the truth about why she's not engaging.
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That's what being vulnerable is.
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Okay, so why does not having good boundaries translate into health
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symptoms?
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It's because biologically speaking,
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boundaries are the limits of territory.
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Now, that's really easy to understand for the masculine.
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This is my territory.
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This isn't my territory.
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This is my bailiwick.
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This is not my bailiwick.
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That person is respecting my territory.
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This other person isn't respecting my territory.
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That means your boundaries are the limits or the
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edge of your home,
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your space,
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your time,
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your goals,
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the resources you need to flourish,
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your skin and everything inside it,
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your place in the hierarchy or the group.
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thresholds and access.
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Your attention is another boundary,
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or the limit of your attention.
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reputation,
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and the pace or tempo of your life.
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These are some examples of your boundaries are at the limits or edge
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of these things.
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The masculine temporal lobe or boundary conflicts
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are about problems providing for and protecting something
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or someone that is cherished.
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So we might have territorial fear.
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That's fear that we're going to lose our territory.
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Someone's going to break into the house and ruin the container.
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Or someone's going to say nasty things and ruin your reputation.
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Territorial fear will involve either the bronchus or the larynx,
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depending on your laterality and what other temporal lobe conflicts you've got
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going on.
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Territorial loss is the second masculine temporal
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lobe conflict.
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This is actually losing your territory.
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You're fired.
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your wife divorces you and your kids don't want anything to do with you.
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That which you were providing for and protecting is
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no longer something you have access to.
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So that'll involve either your coronary arteries or your coronary
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veins, again,
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depending on your laterality and whatever else is going on in your psyche.
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Territorial anger is another masculine temporal
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lobe conflict or boundary conflict.
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This is when the territory itself is being difficult.
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Someone's not respecting the territory,
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putting themselves in danger.
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Someone's being deceitful.
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Someone's turning the thermostat up and opening all the windows.
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It's the territory itself putting the territory in danger.
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That'll involve either your stomach,
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gall duct,
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or liver duct,
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or pancreatic duct,
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or it'll involve the lining of your rectum on
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the other hemisphere,
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and that depends,
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again, on your laterality and so on.
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And fourth,
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the fourth masculine...
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boundary conflict or temporal lobe conflict is inability to
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demarcate.
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This happens when you can't be sure if this is your territory or not.
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That'll involve either the left or the right side of your urinary tract.
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The feminine temporal lobe or boundary conflicts,
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on the other hand,
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they're not about territory.
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They're not about claiming and demarcating the territory and asserting
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the territory.
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They're about rejection from the territory.
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They are about not being protected and provided for,
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not being cherished.
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So the first one is going to be scare fright.
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This is a fear that we're going to be rejected from the container.
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Someone's going to break into the house and kill you,
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or someone's going to notice you have an opinion that you shouldn't,
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and is going to punish you or exile you.
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This conflict in your psyche will involve larynx or bronchus,
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depending on your laterality and what else is going on in your
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temporal lobes at the moment.
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Second, we have sexual rejection.
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This is a sense of not being cherished and unconditionally
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loved, either because of being rejected,
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rejected as the feminine,
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or because of feeling sexually violated.
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To the psyche,
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they are both a violation of the feminine.
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And that's sexual rejection or sexual conflict.
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And it's going to involve the coronary veins and cervix.
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or the coronary arteries,
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depending on your laterality and whatever else is going on in your psyche at the moment.
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Third,
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we have the feminine identity conflict.
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This is the sense that I am the troublemaker in the territory.
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I'm the cause of problems for others.
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I have compromised or destroyed the safe container because
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of who and what I am.
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This will involve either the lining of the rectum or
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the stomach,
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liver, gall.
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or pancreatic duct.
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And last,
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the last feminine conflict is inability to find the demarcation.
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So this is not knowing where I can be,
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what the rules are,
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what the limits are,
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what position I should take.
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I don't,
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I just don't even know.
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It's going to involve either the left or the right side of the urinary tract.
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I wanted to give some examples then of contrasting the
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masculine territory versus the feminine belonging.
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The masculine territory,
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for example,
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is your house,
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but the feminine would be being at home.
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A masculine conflict would be about losing a house or the threat of not having
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access to a house.
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A feminine conflict would be not feeling welcome in
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a home, feeling like a guest,
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feeling like an intruder,
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like you have to tiptoe,
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hide, perform,
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or brace.
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I'm not saying that feeling like that way causes a conflict.
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I'm saying that the conflict is feeling that way.
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When you feel that way,
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it's because you've got that temporal lobe conflict going on.
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One of those four feminine temporal lobe conflicts going on.
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The masculine territory is your personal space,
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for example.
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The feminine corollary would be embodiment in the space.
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So a masculine boundary problem is when
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someone or something's intruding into your personal space.
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But a feminine boundary problem would be not feeling
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safe to move,
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take up space,
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or let loose.
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When the feminine can't feel the no in relation to
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the space,
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in the personal space,
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then she can't feel the yes of ease.
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She makes herself small.
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So what happens is you freeze,
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you fawn,
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you become hyper -aware.
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Another type of masculine territory might be your time.
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The feminine would not care about time.
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The feminine boundary problem would be around spaciousness
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and rhythm.
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The masculine feels time,
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the feminine feels spaciousness and rhythm.
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So a masculine boundary problem might be having your
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time wasted or not being able to keep track of time.
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The feminine doesn't live on a stopwatch.
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The feminine lives in cycles and tempo and doesn't really have any thought
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about time.
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Another territorial idea is goals.
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Goals are masculine.
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The feminine desires.
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So the masculine is the goal.
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The feminine is the yes.
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Yes to that.
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I love that idea.
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I feel it.
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So when the feminine is having a boundary problem,
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maybe because the masculine isn't holding territory around
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a goal,
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The feminine boundary problem is going to feel like desire
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becoming unsafe.
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So the feminine is going to numb out,
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perform, and become indirect.
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I can't say yes to that.
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Rights and responsibilities are another type of a masculine
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territory.
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The feminine would be concerned with consideration.
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So when rights and responsibilities are clear and upheld,
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which is masculine territory,
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then the feminine is going to experience dignity,
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care, and being taken seriously.

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