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relaying through the temporal lobes that is masculine

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conflicts of territory protection and provision or

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Feminine conflicts of sexuality,

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identity,

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and belonging are extremely widespread in the

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Western world right now.

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Dr.

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Hamer was grateful that he looked at CAT scans before the 1990s,

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because after the 90s,

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not one in a hundred people didn't have some kind of temporal lobe

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conflict going on,

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and usually more than one of them.

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So if you're part of Western civilization in the 21st century,

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you've almost certainly got one or two of these going on.

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Possibly quite a few more.

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And the temporal lobe conflicts are always underpinned

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with a self -devaluation conflict of not being able

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to demarcate the territory.

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Or,

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put more simply,

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temporal lobe conflicts are about not being able to say

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no.

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Nature makes no mistakes.

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God does not play dice.

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Instead,

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all of creation springs forth according to a few simple,

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elegant rules.

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All of creation,

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including your body.

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Know these rules and your body comes under your control.

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Welcome to Mind Over Symptom,

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where the pattern is revealed.

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In the temporal lobes of your cerebral cortex,

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there are eight relays that have to do with boundaries.

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In Germanische Heilkunde,

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we know which relays are active with special biological

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programs that have to do with boundaries because of the body symptoms

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and behavior symptoms that arise when these conflicts are active,

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as well as when they're in the healing phase.

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Symptoms from the right temporal lobe include bronchial symptoms,

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coronary artery symptoms,

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stomach,

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pancreatic duct,

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liver duct,

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and gall duct symptoms,

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and urinary tract symptoms on the left side

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of the urinary tract.

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Symptoms from the left temporal lobe include larynx

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symptoms,

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coronary vein and uterine cervix symptoms,

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symptoms in the lining of the rectum,

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and urinary tract symptoms on the right side.

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If we're having symptoms in those tissues of the body,

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then we're having biological conflicts related to not having good boundaries,

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or we're having boundary problems.

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But there are also mental,

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emotional, and behavioral symptoms that come from these same biological

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conflicts in the temporal lobes.

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First,

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if there's any conflict on the right temporal lobe,

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so affecting the bronchi,

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coronary artery,

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stomach, or the ducts of the liver,

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gallbladder, or pancreas,

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or the left side of the urinary tract,

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there's going to be depression.

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And the more intense the conflict,

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the more severe the depression is going to be.

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Conversely,

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if there's any conflict on the left temporal lobe,

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that's larynx,

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coronary vein,

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and uterine cervix,

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or the rectum lining,

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or the right side of the urinary tract,

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There's going to be mania and compulsive or controlling impulses,

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risk -taking and so on.

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But we also have special psychological symptoms that come up if

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we have a constellation of at least one active temporal

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lobe conflict in each temporal lobe.

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So these combinations of two or more temporal lobe

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conflicts produce flying constellation,

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that's feeling out of body or dissociating.

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Manic depression,

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or what in GNM we call the post -mortal constellation.

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For women,

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there's always nymphomania or nymphodepression with that.

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And for men,

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if the territorial loss involved a sexual partner,

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there will be Casanova constellation.

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That's sort of the male corollary of nymphomania.

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He'll be a womanizer.

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Aggressive constellation,

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or what we in GNM call the biomanic constellation.

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We can also be aggressive against ourselves.

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That's the biodepressive constellation.

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It's a feeling of severe guilt.

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We can have demarcation constellation.

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That produces incontinence,

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frequent urination,

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and bedwetting,

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but it also produces the behaviors and compulsions diagnosed as

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OCD,

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obsessive -compulsive disorder.

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There's autistic constellation.

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It produces a spectrum of behaviors from workaholism to

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catatonia.

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And then there's the opposite of autistic constellation.

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That's mythomania or mythodepression.

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A flood of writing,

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talking, and fawning and people -pleasing.

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The joker in the room.

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If we have a temporal lobe constellation before we

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are emotionally mature,

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we'll be developmentally arrested until there's no more temporal

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lobe constellation.

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So that's why boundary problems

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are also problematic.

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Problems of immaturity.

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They go hand in hand.

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And also at the heart of cluster B behavior

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disorders is also a constellation.

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I call it the psychopathy or narcissism constellation.

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It's a three -way constellation.

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and it produces a lack of empathy and a loss of contact with the self.

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It turns people into liars,

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vicious liars.

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We can also have constellations from the temporal lobes that

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combine a temporal lobe conflict with a conflict in a different part

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of the cerebral cortex that's not in the temporal lobe.

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For example,

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the bulimia constellation involves a stomach relay in the right

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temporal lobe,

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and the low blood sugar relay,

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the glucagon relay,

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on the left side of the frontal cortex.

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So that was a list of many of the symptoms that

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come from,

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or at least involve,

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one or both of the temporal lobes of your

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cerebral cortex.

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And every one of them starts with,

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or involves,

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not having good boundaries.

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And as you've observed,

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this is so prevalent in the world right now,

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it would be considered abnormal not to have one of

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these conditions.

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In fact,

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having good boundaries is often perceived as

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abnormal by the rest of us who don't have good boundaries.

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Why are boundary problems such a big deal?

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Well, not one in a hundred of us doesn't have at least one of these special biological

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programs, usually two or more in constellation with each other going

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on at any given time,

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because we're living in a time when most people have

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poor boundaries,

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at least in certain contexts.

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Now, while it's understandable that most of us have poor boundaries,

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after all,

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most of us have been raised in a society that values collectivism

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and puts value on sacrificing our own interests for the benefit of

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others,

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So of course we haven't had good boundaries modeled for us,

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and we've probably even been punished or abused or lost relationships

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whenever we have asserted or had expectations around boundaries.

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We've probably been taught that people who have good boundaries are

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actually aggressive and bad,

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selfish.

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The reason it's important to get good boundaries and solve our temporal

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lobe conflicts is that these conflicts profoundly affect

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our happiness,

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our relationship,

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and our sense of self,

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not to mention the physical health symptoms that go along with temporal lobe conflicts.

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As long as we have these kinds of biological conflicts active

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in our psyches,

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we can't grow up,

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we can't form interdependent relationships based on trust and mutual respect,

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and we live in a state of constantly feeling like either a

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victim, a villain,

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or a rescuer.

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That makes us get pushed off course by every external

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event that enters our consciousness.

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Because when we're in temporal lobe conflicts,

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especially when we've got a constellation of two or more of them going on at the

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same time, we are not in touch with reality.

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It's not actually a healthy way to live.

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It is an emergency response,

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and it needs to be temporary.

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As I said,

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this is the norm for most of us today,

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though.

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But it doesn't mean we're doomed to chaos and constant drama in our lives.

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It just means we have to get good at boundaries,

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which is the evolutionary purpose of all temporal lobe conflicts.

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That's the fifth biological law of the Germanic New Medicine.

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Fortunately,

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although the symptoms of not having good boundaries are complex,

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actually having good boundaries isn't complicated

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at all.

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Having good boundaries means being able to sense and state,

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no n o no all

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we have to learn is what to say no about and how to

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find and respect the right no's so

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what is a boundary a boundary in biological terms is

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a boundary around territory and saying no

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means asserting territory now territory is neither

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physical nor is it the opposite it's not just a metaphorical or figurative

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concept in germanic healing knowledge territory is

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biological territory is the masculine principle

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of caring so much about something or someone that

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you would give your life to provide for and protect it

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Your masculine territory includes your loved ones as well as everything that

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provides security and nourishment for your loved ones.

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Things that you could experience as your territory might include your job

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or your company,

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people, maybe even literal resources like buildings,

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bank accounts,

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and so on.

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Territory,

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although it's biological,

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isn't those things.

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Territory exists only in your

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psyche, and I'm not saying it's your imagination,

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but it is not a physical thing.

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And,

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as I've said,

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territory is masculine.

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What that means is you only have and care

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about territory if you're in what we call masculine hormonal

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status.

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That means you're biologically male or you're a pregnant

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or nursing woman or you have a very young child or

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a woman who is in menopause.

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For everyone else,

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what we're experiencing as territory...

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is a compulsion produced by at least one temporal lobe conflict,

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and we're going to immediately lose interest in that as territory as

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soon as the conflict is solved in our psyche,

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because there is no such thing as

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feminine territory.

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There are feminine temporal lobe conflicts,

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but there is no such thing as feminine territory.

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Technically,

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the temporal lobe conflicts on one side of your brain are masculine,

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and those on the other side are feminine.

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Which temporal relays are masculine and which are feminine depends

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on your biological sex and your laterality.

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This is important because actually half the temporal lobe conflicts are feminine.

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We call them territorial conflicts,

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but half of them are not territorial.

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They are about territorial in a tangential sense,

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and I'll get to that shortly.

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But half the temporal lobe conflicts are feminine.

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That means they're not territorial because the feminine doesn't devote to

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providing for and protecting the territory.

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But the feminine very much depends on the existence

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of secure territory.

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So the feminine doesn't go around saying no and asserting boundaries.

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That's masculine.

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Then what does having good boundaries mean to

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the feminine?

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The feminine needs to feel the boundaries of the territory.

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The feminine needs there to be a secure territory held

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and protected by the masculine.

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And when the feminine has good boundaries,

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she can feel the no,

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which enables the feminine to create the yes within what is secure,

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loving and true.

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We can only be vulnerable and in contact with reality when

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we can relax and feel safe.

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And we can only do that when we know that boundaries,

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limits or structure

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The no's are absolutely dependable.

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Consider a three -year -old child laughing,

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playing, doing art,

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chattering with her friends,

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building stuff in parallel,

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play with his buddies.

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This can't happen without clear structure limits,

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safety, and no's.

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Now put that same three -year -old child in the room with adults who are having an argument.

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Or put the child alone in an empty parking lot in the middle of a

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crime -ridden zone,

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decaying part of the city.

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The feeling's very,

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very different.

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The child's no longer happily playing.

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They're not creating.

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They're not relating with others.

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That's what lack of boundaries means to the feminine.

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If you can't relax,

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your biology never stops initiating DHSs in special

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biological programs.

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It'll use whatever's going on.

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You'll have a DHS and a biological conflict and a

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special biological program because the sky was the wrong color this morning.

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While the masculine must secure territory in order to

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feel purposeful and meaningful,

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the feminine can only flourish if there is a secure container that

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we can count on to always be there for us,

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providing guidance and being there for us no matter what.

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So,

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for the masculine,

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having good boundaries means asserting the no.

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And for the feminine,

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having good boundaries means moving away from anything in which the limits

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or structures,

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the no's,

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can't be felt or discerned.

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The feminine doesn't create clear boundaries,

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but the feminine will not engage unless there are clear

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boundaries.

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And she'll tell the truth about why she's not engaging.

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That's what being vulnerable is.

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Okay, so why does not having good boundaries translate into health

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symptoms?

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It's because biologically speaking,

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boundaries are the limits of territory.

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Now, that's really easy to understand for the masculine.

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This is my territory.

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This isn't my territory.

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This is my bailiwick.

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This is not my bailiwick.

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That person is respecting my territory.

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This other person isn't respecting my territory.

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That means your boundaries are the limits or the

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edge of your home,

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your space,

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your time,

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your goals,

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the resources you need to flourish,

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your skin and everything inside it,

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your place in the hierarchy or the group.

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thresholds and access.

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Your attention is another boundary,

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or the limit of your attention.

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reputation,

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and the pace or tempo of your life.

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These are some examples of your boundaries are at the limits or edge

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of these things.

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The masculine temporal lobe or boundary conflicts

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are about problems providing for and protecting something

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or someone that is cherished.

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So we might have territorial fear.

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That's fear that we're going to lose our territory.

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Someone's going to break into the house and ruin the container.

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Or someone's going to say nasty things and ruin your reputation.

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Territorial fear will involve either the bronchus or the larynx,

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depending on your laterality and what other temporal lobe conflicts you've got

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going on.

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Territorial loss is the second masculine temporal

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lobe conflict.

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This is actually losing your territory.

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You're fired.

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your wife divorces you and your kids don't want anything to do with you.

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That which you were providing for and protecting is

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no longer something you have access to.

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So that'll involve either your coronary arteries or your coronary

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veins, again,

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depending on your laterality and whatever else is going on in your psyche.

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Territorial anger is another masculine temporal

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lobe conflict or boundary conflict.

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This is when the territory itself is being difficult.

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Someone's not respecting the territory,

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putting themselves in danger.

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Someone's being deceitful.

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Someone's turning the thermostat up and opening all the windows.

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It's the territory itself putting the territory in danger.

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That'll involve either your stomach,

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gall duct,

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or liver duct,

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or pancreatic duct,

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or it'll involve the lining of your rectum on

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the other hemisphere,

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and that depends,

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again, on your laterality and so on.

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And fourth,

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the fourth masculine...

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boundary conflict or temporal lobe conflict is inability to

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demarcate.

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This happens when you can't be sure if this is your territory or not.

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That'll involve either the left or the right side of your urinary tract.

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The feminine temporal lobe or boundary conflicts,

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on the other hand,

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they're not about territory.

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They're not about claiming and demarcating the territory and asserting

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the territory.

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They're about rejection from the territory.

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They are about not being protected and provided for,

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not being cherished.

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So the first one is going to be scare fright.

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This is a fear that we're going to be rejected from the container.

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Someone's going to break into the house and kill you,

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or someone's going to notice you have an opinion that you shouldn't,

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and is going to punish you or exile you.

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This conflict in your psyche will involve larynx or bronchus,

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depending on your laterality and what else is going on in your

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temporal lobes at the moment.

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Second, we have sexual rejection.

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This is a sense of not being cherished and unconditionally

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loved, either because of being rejected,

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rejected as the feminine,

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or because of feeling sexually violated.

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To the psyche,

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they are both a violation of the feminine.

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And that's sexual rejection or sexual conflict.

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And it's going to involve the coronary veins and cervix.

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or the coronary arteries,

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depending on your laterality and whatever else is going on in your psyche at the moment.

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Third,

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we have the feminine identity conflict.

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This is the sense that I am the troublemaker in the territory.

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I'm the cause of problems for others.

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I have compromised or destroyed the safe container because

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of who and what I am.

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This will involve either the lining of the rectum or

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the stomach,

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liver, gall.

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or pancreatic duct.

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And last,

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the last feminine conflict is inability to find the demarcation.

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So this is not knowing where I can be,

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what the rules are,

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what the limits are,

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what position I should take.

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I don't,

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I just don't even know.

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It's going to involve either the left or the right side of the urinary tract.

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I wanted to give some examples then of contrasting the

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masculine territory versus the feminine belonging.

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The masculine territory,

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for example,

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is your house,

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but the feminine would be being at home.

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A masculine conflict would be about losing a house or the threat of not having

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access to a house.

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A feminine conflict would be not feeling welcome in

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a home, feeling like a guest,

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feeling like an intruder,

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like you have to tiptoe,

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hide, perform,

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or brace.

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I'm not saying that feeling like that way causes a conflict.

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I'm saying that the conflict is feeling that way.

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When you feel that way,

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it's because you've got that temporal lobe conflict going on.

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One of those four feminine temporal lobe conflicts going on.

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The masculine territory is your personal space,

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for example.

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The feminine corollary would be embodiment in the space.

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So a masculine boundary problem is when

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someone or something's intruding into your personal space.

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But a feminine boundary problem would be not feeling

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safe to move,

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take up space,

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or let loose.

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When the feminine can't feel the no in relation to

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the space,

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in the personal space,

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then she can't feel the yes of ease.

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She makes herself small.

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So what happens is you freeze,

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you fawn,

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you become hyper -aware.

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Another type of masculine territory might be your time.

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The feminine would not care about time.

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The feminine boundary problem would be around spaciousness

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and rhythm.

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The masculine feels time,

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the feminine feels spaciousness and rhythm.

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So a masculine boundary problem might be having your

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time wasted or not being able to keep track of time.

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The feminine doesn't live on a stopwatch.

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The feminine lives in cycles and tempo and doesn't really have any thought

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about time.

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Another territorial idea is goals.

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Goals are masculine.

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The feminine desires.

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So the masculine is the goal.

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The feminine is the yes.

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Yes to that.

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I love that idea.

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I feel it.

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So when the feminine is having a boundary problem,

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maybe because the masculine isn't holding territory around

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a goal,

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The feminine boundary problem is going to feel like desire

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becoming unsafe.

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So the feminine is going to numb out,

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perform, and become indirect.

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I can't say yes to that.

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Rights and responsibilities are another type of a masculine

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territory.

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The feminine would be concerned with consideration.

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So when rights and responsibilities are clear and upheld,

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which is masculine territory,

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then the feminine is going to experience dignity,

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care, and being taken seriously.

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