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  1. 0:01

    All right, today is March 31st, it's Tuesday, 12-27. First question, what do you think CMU should do that would make your college experience better? For, like, an overall thing, I think give more, well, not give more options, because they d…

  2. 5:08

    in a sense um but i do find time for myself and you kind of need to as a college student um i feel i feel like recently for sure that i have gotten better with my self-care and being able to focus on myself a little bit that's good that's g…

  3. 10:12
    Chapitre 3: national guard um he is he's been struggling a lot with mental health issues and stuff like that he'll give me a call every two weeks or so and so that's that's where my worry comes from is my mom my brother but other than that like and my sister just had uh she got an mri and her shoulders all messed up so she won't be able to play softball so i kind of feel upset for her but um the reason why i did put more is because i know that if they need me they will contact me and i know if i need them i can contact them anytime i want um there's no hard feelings for any of them it's just something i gotta worry about them because they're my family all right all right understood understood um so how do you kind of go about that then you know just that assurance that you know they'll need you if you yeah yes so um my so my little sister she is a junior in high school she was never a talkative person growing up and i feel like whenever i go home the person she talks to most is me okay and having that feeling that like she's finally coming out of her shell you know and i'm the person she comes to talk to i know that if she really needs something she'll come talk to me that's good um and my brother even too right like he's called me a couple times saying that like i'm the only guy that he can call and i'll like for sure answer or that i'm the only person there for him still yeah and then my mom um she texts me every now and then um you know we still have a harder relationship but i always still go see her on holidays i always talk to her i always say i love you i always um she's still my mom you know and she i mean she no one's going to be the greatest mother ever but but you know she's she's still my mom so okay that's good that's great all right so we're gonna move on from that a little bit and kind of direct towards like again with your like weekly overall you say you feel you balance your weekly activities pretty well yes yes i do yes okay all right because i mean most of these that you have on here yeah much you know little to no stress at all so that that's really good okay all right um so on in terms of like like your perspective what would you say on these ones that you said that you know you had a moderate amount would you say it needs to like maybe change in those areas to make the life your life would you say less stressful okay um well maybe paying for college maybe just what would make it less stressful is more i mean i mean i can be picky with this and just say give me more work hours so i have more money you know or i could be like uh maybe get a financial advisor to help me through what i can pay for as of right now and what i can't um i'm not too stressed out about it just because i know a lot of people um they go through college and they they don't have the money at all yeah either and they get through it so that's what kind of gets me like i'm okay with it um family wise um i know like contacting them more would definitely you know just make me feel better about it um and i do contact all of them um but still i can text my dad every every week um brother every two weeks maybe sister every month um but yeah all right good good good okay um so we're gonna turn our attention to another topic now um that's kind of related but um we're gonna talk about drinking alcohol among college students so looking back how would you compare student drinking at your high school to drinking among students here at cmu okay so my um can i go like through like a backstory here do you want me just to answer the question you can do you can do the backstory i mean also think about like different groups like you know cliques okay people like um so i know that i got introduced to alcohol my freshman year or my freshman year of high school um i was on the football team at the time and i was really good friends with some seniors and i was really good friends with the sophomore at the time who knew the seniors and we would go hang out with the seniors and they introduced me to it um it was like it was a very very small group of people okay um but they were on football teams sports teams stuff like that they were very popular kids okay um i know my when it got to my Senior year, it got like, you know, there were plenty of kids who were drinking alcohol, like way more freshmen drinking alcohol. 301s · Speaker 2

    national guard um he is he's been struggling a lot with mental health issues and stuff like that he'll give me a call every two weeks or so and so that's that's where my worry comes from is my mom my brother but other than that like and my …

  4. 15:14

    Compared to now, you know, I feel like because we can go to bars and because there's like fake IDs and stuff, that even those kids from high school now have those fake IDs and they get into bars here. Yes. So I think it's changed a little b…

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    Chapitre 5: Uh, Zins. 303s · Speaker 3

    Uh, Zins. Yup. Um, there, there was marijuana. Uh. Okay. So nothing like too crazy? No, no, no. Nothing. No, no, no. Um, did certain crowds maybe use more drugs? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes? Yeah. There was a, I remember a certain, certain gr…

  6. 22:38
    Chapitre 6: 9 30 10 o'clock and we get somewhere at five or six i mean there'll be 10 drinks per person down okay you know and depending on what those drinks are okay um sometimes it's less depending on the person if they want to if they don't want it they just want to you know be included and do it and drink maybe they'll drink three or four and then they'll go out and you know yeah so you'd like obviously it probably difference from when yeah yeah yeah okay all right perfect um how often i know you said you don't do a lot but do you binge drink during a typical week maybe during a typical month um typical week i mean it used to be once but i'm trying to cut down on it so i'm trying to say like i'm trying to get to maybe once a month okay it used to be i mean how many weeks are in a month um like yeah so probably three four or five like those how many days um that's good that's good um when you drink where do you usually drink um i mean it can be any it can be anywhere from uh an apartment to a bar to a dorm to uh anything of that matter okay okay um is there a particular reason why you go there um you know it's just like it's comfortable you know it's not like i'm doing it in front of people i don't know okay so i won't like it's a friend in front of them yeah yeah um because you know embarrassment's a thing too when you go out and drink so i'll i've never gone out to a bar and gotten 10 drinks at a bar because i don't feel too comfortable doing it there but okay okay that's good um moving on uh where would you say you get the money to pay for your alcohol you know could this be your job like you said or your parents maybe savings it would be it would be my job it would be my job okay okay um that's good that's good from your perspective what are the reasons why some other college students spins drink um can you say can you repeat the question sorry so like looking you you you you you you you You know, from your point of view and looking at other college students, why would you say that? 203s · Speaker 1

    9 30 10 o'clock and we get somewhere at five or six i mean there'll be 10 drinks per person down okay you know and depending on what those drinks are okay um sometimes it's less depending on the person if they want to if they don't want it …

  7. 26:02

    You don't have to. Would you like a beverage or anything by chance? No, thank you. Okay. I feel more attractive. It makes you feel less attractive. There you go. All right. So for to feel the physical effects you put down most of the time, …

  8. 31:04

    from drinking too often? Like, kind of like what you're saying? Yeah, I know a couple kids that would, you know, get DUIs even. DUIs, MIPs maybe? Yeah, I know a couple people that got MIPs. There's, and they've, I mean, they've gotten in tr…

  9. 36:07

    what it was like during the pandemic, if you have any memory about? Yeah, so pandemic-wise, that was my, I was at the early part of my freshman year, which is what I was talking about earlier. Um, and we would go to like small gatherings wi…

  10. 41:13

    Maybe give more, like, Saturday events for, like, even, like, the library or, like, dorm-wise, just so that they can, the people that don't want to, you know, they can go out and do things still. They can go out and have fun with a group of…

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    some fun in college you want that kind of balance um i would say make uh get your homework done before the weekend okay um because that's a big thing right like if you get all your work done before the weekend and if you have to study study…

  12. 49:13

    thank you so you you you Thank you.