GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360
Jun 11, 2026 11:51
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Honey. How are
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Good.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
How's your day going?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
All right.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Okay.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
What was good about it and what was not so good about it?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
It will get a lot of work done for a Monday,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
right?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
You know, sometimes hard.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
What's not good about it,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
we didn't get any more answers about the layoffs.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Just another email saying you have till midnight to
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
make a choice on,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know, if you should early get out.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And there's talk about reorganization.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But what do you mean?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Well, what's going to join this?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
What's going to reorganize or consolidate?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And no clues on what that is.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So, okay.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Do you have any idea what
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you're leaning towards?
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Or are you just,
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
what are you waiting for?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Oh,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I have to stay.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm only eight years in.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So, well,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
nine come May.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I think I'll be good,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but there's talks.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So I hate to say this,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but everything that's been happening has been like part
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
of Project 2025 and I never believed it.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But things are like going like that.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And for good or bad,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
right? I don't know.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm not very political on that side when it comes to like,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
well, this, I just do what I'm told,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
um i can look myself in the mirror i'm not hurting anybody so um
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but they're gonna it looks like they might reconsolidize
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
immigration back into one agency used to be ins and
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
i think we're gonna go back to that but they don't want to
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
say so that's why everyone's like very like scared because it's
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like what does that mean what does that mean for my position how do i
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
fit that so yeah
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And did you see yourself staying there for a while?
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So this was like out of the blue or you weren't prepared to
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
leave like this early?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I do see myself staying.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I saw myself,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
honestly,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I thought they were going to keep us separate and I thought I was going to be able to go help
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
out ICE and do petitions,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
right?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm not an officer.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I don't want to arrest people.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I don't want to run and gun,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but I want to do the petitions that you file with ICE,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
even for bond.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Like if you file for a bond,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
somebody looks over there and says yes or no,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and I'd be like, hey, I can do that.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But there's
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
just no talk downward from high
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
up. Even to my supervisors and top
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
people, they're just like in the dark every day.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Do you believe them when they say that they're in the dark or do you think that they're withholding
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
information?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I believe them because their expressions are
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
honestly like heartbroken.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And it's like,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm sure they have the same questions as I do and
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
same concerns.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And what they're being told is you don't need to know that
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
until it's time.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So they're looking like that anger and frustration is on their
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
face.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But when they tell me.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, I asked and I didn't get an answer.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So I can see that frustration where it's like,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, I'm with you.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I want answers,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but I'm not getting told.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So it's like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
okay.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Does that comfort you in any way?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
No,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
because some of the reasons we're here is because some of them made poor decisions and
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
they're not going to get fired for it.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But if I make a poor decision,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you bet.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
i'm walking a fine line um but because they have
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
so much seniority it's like you know and i get it sometimes
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
we roll out programs that don't make sense but you have
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
to take i'm a very um i'm glad we i'm
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
a very accountable person so um like
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
i take responsibility to the extreme like you know
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
um
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I feel like that's a personality and trait that I want in a partner where it's like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I didn't tell you about this.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I totally messed up.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
How do we go from here?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Because then I won't chastise or say,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
well, I can't trust you.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'll be like, okay,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, you took full ownership and responsibility.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Let's solve this.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I just got to remind myself,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
this isn't the hardest thing I've been through.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm not going to get tired of this,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but like one day I worked 18 hours straight in Kuwait.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Like it was the stupidest thing too.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I was just watching dirt outside,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
just vast ocean of dirt.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I was just like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Sergeant, this is stupid.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Those guys can do their job without us.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And he's like, yep,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but this is what you signed up for.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I was like.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you got me.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So I just shut up and I did it.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I was hungry.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Remember they brought us tacos and it was like the best meal in the world,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but it wasn't the best meal in the world.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I was just like,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
okay,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I can,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I can do anything now.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Right.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So that's what I remind myself.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Good.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm glad that you found a reframe for yourself and an
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
avenue or an area to focus on.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
instead of focusing on the unknown and the things that are completely
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
out of your control yeah yeah um
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
did you want to dive into the question that we
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
had from last coaching session or do you want to address
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
something else or something um well
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
uh
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
we'll address something else but I also really need your intake uh on
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
it so I've been seeing a life coach because it's just something I get from
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
a VA and um they're like hey are you you know mentally okay
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like what's where are you at and uh I'm taking
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
full advantage of it because I get the time off and um like
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I can be like hey I need 30 minutes of sick leave to talk to my life coach right and they're
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Okay, but it's my time.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Anyway,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I was
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
telling her,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, I have these single events and it's frustrating because I
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
go and it's just sometimes there's,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know, if there's no fish,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
there's no fish or,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like I want the opportunity.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
if i get rejected i get rejected i'm okay and i know it's a numbers
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
game so i know i have to get through nine notes most likely statistically right
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
so but and
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
i feel like it's my fault because i like i said i take responsibility like
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
um
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm OK with being single,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but I want to be saying,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, I put in the effort to not be single.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I go to events.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I go out and I talk to girls or people and like,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey. And so
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
the question is,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like, where do I go to meet more single
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
women?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And she was like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
well, you need to go if the vibe of Houston or
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
the cultural and.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Because to me,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I don't mind going places,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but I won't just go cold call girls.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
When we were at the Ice House,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
there's a lot of...
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
You don't want...
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Sorry, the last part.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I wouldn't say cold call.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Well,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I don't go up to groups of girls or girls by themselves.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I don't...
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I think I should.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Well,
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I know I should now.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Just straight go to them and be like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, hi.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
My name is Julian and work
8:38
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
on that sales pitch.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Right.
8:41
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So
8:46
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
where I'm going with that is that,
8:47
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know,
8:51
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I blame myself,
8:52
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
too, because sometimes I've been bad about going and like going to one event,
8:56
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
not going to solve everything.
8:58
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Everybody always wants that that way.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And then I was remembering like we
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
had the night.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Sorry,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
getting texts.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
We had the.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
event at the zoo and i made a good conversation with
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
somebody i was like okay and hopefully i see you instead of like closing and
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
getting her in contact or even just you know
9:27
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
introducing myself so that if i saw her i could message her and start but um
9:31
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
main thing is and mostly because
9:36
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
this was that was the last event like what what do i do where
9:40
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
do i go yeah so
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Well, let's tackle the example
9:51
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
that you used.
9:52
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
You went to a singles event during the Houston Zoo Lights.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And you connected with someone.
10:00
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I mean, we had a little bit of a conversation.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
We had a conversation with someone.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But you never did anything afterwards
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
with it.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Right.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Or anything at that moment of,
10:13
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, it was nice to meet you.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And then you kind of just left it.
10:15
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Is that what I'm understanding?
10:16
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I was like, hey,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I forgot her name.
10:21
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But she came with the girl in the brown.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And we were talking.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
We made it through some of it.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
because I wasn't with Quinn and Heather the whole time and then uh
10:33
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
no that was they were there yeah they were there and
10:37
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
then um at the end I was like hey
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know Julian I hope to see you at other events and she's like yeah me too um
10:46
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and she had joined through uh you know how we
10:50
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
keep saying there's so many big groups and other groups that come and attach so
10:55
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I was like okay well maybe she'll get tagged and you took that photo of all of us and
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
um
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah, I just never got to go
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
further.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And now it's like so late that I'm like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
no, like you had that chance.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Let's see her again.
11:14
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah, let's go on.
11:15
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So what would
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you like the outcome to have been?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
To
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
have been like another continuing and like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, I like,
11:32
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
well, I don't.
11:34
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Hey, my name is Julian.
11:35
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
No,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
what I'm trying to say is that I would have liked to been able to continue the
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
communication to even just to be like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, you know,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
ask.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And if she said no,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
she said no,
11:47
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but never put it to that.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So the outcome that you
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
would have liked is to continue the
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
conversation outside of that group.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Outside of after that event.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
After that event.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Okay.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And so for you,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
what would you have had to do to achieve that outcome?
12:15
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Had to ask her.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And what prevented you from doing so?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
A
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
little bit of fear.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I think it also drives into
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
the authenticity because she talked to me and she was
12:36
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
giving me like details of what she does.
12:48
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I wouldn't say I'm judgmental,
12:49
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but what scared me,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and I'm going to say it because I feel like we can have this conversation,
12:55
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
is that a red flag to me is somebody
12:59
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
that is irresponsible.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And an irresponsible thing to me is paying $1 ,400,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
$1 ,500 for Taylor Swift.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Because we're
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
all adults.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like i i love my guns i love my dog but i don't
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
spend more than six or something percent of my
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
annual income for something however
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
i'm starting to see that like you know what it doesn't really matter like
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
if she wanted to go see taylor swift cool like she like we
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
all have our passions and our dreams and even somebody would be like well you spend that
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
much on a gun like
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
that's that's groceries for a month or something so i'm like i
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
just want to tell that person that person inside me to be responsible to be like shut up
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you don't know i don't i had some facts
13:55
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but not all the facts so can we dig
13:59
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
into that a little bit more yes the what
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
would you name it the responsible but judgy voice
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
in you
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yes.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And that comes from my ex.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
She used to tell me,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you're such a man child.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Explain.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I think it was that she,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
okay,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
she wanted things in our life,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like to travel.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I was just like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, we don't have money for that.
14:29
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
You know,
14:31
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and we didn't at that time.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
so.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I look now and I looked at my finances
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and what we were always behind because we were paying for a lifestyle
14:55
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
that we wanted,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but we weren't there yet.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And so we'd
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
go out and sometimes she'd be like,
15:07
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, why is there a credit card bill?
15:08
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm like,
15:09
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
remember we went on date night?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Oh,
15:12
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
yeah, yeah.
15:12
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Well,
15:16
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
how come you didn't contribute $5 to our travel fund?
15:19
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I made a credit card payment and the
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
rest is for the groceries.
15:25
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
We're never late on bills,
15:28
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but we sometimes be like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
oh,
15:32
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
there's nothing left.
15:35
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
there's nothing left for anything extra or there's nothing left
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
to put into savings like what is what does there's nothing left
15:44
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
mean uh yeah there's nothing left after we put into savings she'd
15:48
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
be like well i want to go places like i do too i but
15:53
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like we have to live within these means um yeah
15:57
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
um okay
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
so
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
uh circle back to my own child again because we
16:09
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
missed that part um i just
16:13
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
think that like like uh
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
the way i was raised was that you don't
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
really take vacations you work and you make life as best as
16:26
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you can right not very healthy but very stable you
16:30
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
know my dad made sure we had toys every christmas but
16:35
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
didn't mean
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So he was a federal worker too,
16:38
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but he wouldn't take two weeks for Christmas.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
He would take a week after.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
He'd be off two days
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
before Christmas,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and I'd see him throughout the year.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I wouldn't
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
say
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm frugal because I'll spend.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I will spend.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I like that.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Cry once,
17:13
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
buy once.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I think the easiest way to put it is that,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
let's just say me and you are dating now,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
because you're going on a
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
three -month vacation.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
That is so cool.
17:30
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I'm sure you have finances,
17:33
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but also the PTO and everything.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I would be like,
17:37
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, I can only do a month at a time.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And even if that didn't cause any...
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
not resentment i mean like conflict and you're like okay i'll see you and
17:49
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know like um and we
17:53
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
were able to cover everything which obviously you know you have um i'd
17:57
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
be like i'd still be on pins and needles even though everything
18:01
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
kind of sometimes it takes away like the financing
18:05
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
of something right like okay like like
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
i'm sure a little bit more of the financing of something
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Like this trip that you're taking,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like, you
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
know, you always think about what else you could be spending on.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Right.
18:27
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Or is that just me?
18:30
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I think sometimes.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Or,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
yeah, it could just be me where I'm like,
18:34
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
oh, I could be doing this.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Even things that I'm like,
18:37
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
hey, I put more.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I just put more towards my escrow because I kept like,
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
they'd be like,
18:42
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
oh, it's higher.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I'm like, how is it higher?
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Like, it's the same house.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And they'd be like,
18:48
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
well, it's higher.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm like, you know what?
18:49
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
OK, then.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I gave him more.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And then I'm like,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
could I spend that money somewhere else?
18:54
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Have you ever seen Everyone Hates
18:58
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Chris? It's a TV
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
show that was on.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
It's about Chris Rock's life.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But the dad there is so cheap.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
But then he's always like,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
oh, one time,
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know, I wouldn't say it's cheap.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah, I guess I am cheap then.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
It's just like you worry about the money.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
You worry about the money.
19:20
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Okay. So we still haven't covered the man child.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
We're going to put pause on that only because there's either an
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
avoidance or you're not really
19:32
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
understanding what your ex meant by that.
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Okay.
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Does that sound fair?
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah.
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Okay.
19:40
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So I think what you're trying to do though is
19:44
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
answer the man child like.
19:48
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
discrepancy with the examples that you're giving me um
19:53
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
so what continues to come up
19:57
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
though is this
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
push pull relationship that you have with money that
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
affected your uh relationship
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
past or past relationship yeah and
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
then you see that dynamic in other
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
potential people so
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and you
20:27
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
also it also sounds like you're unhappy with that dynamic oh
20:32
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
definitely like um
20:36
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Like I was telling my dad that some people like
20:41
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
in the chats that I see,
20:42
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
they're like, I wouldn't date a man that doesn't have his career put together and all these things.
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I feel like that,
20:49
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like, and not just because of my situation now,
20:52
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but like after climbing out of the holes I've been in,
20:54
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
I'm like, you never know with a job.
20:58
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Like, and if you have the right partner,
21:02
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
that unemployment or that time where you can be at a terrible
21:06
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
employment.
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
it's just the it can be good like when i was at tsa we had very
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
few arguments but like i said she
21:16
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
was like hey i want to go on vacation i'd be like hey all right let me see and
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
then they'd be like hey you can only take this much time off and be like but i have it
21:24
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and they're like don't care i was like this is stupid why don't
21:28
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you treat me like the an adult and they'd be like well this is how it is
21:33
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
here i'd be like oh and then um
21:36
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and then I got to this job and then they're like oh you want off okay see
21:41
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you when you get back and then um and
21:45
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
then I started finally getting all the money and then we we separated so
21:49
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
yeah so I'm gonna this is gonna sound like an off
21:53
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
the wall question um but I'm going to you
21:58
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
know intersect it with everything um your decisions
22:02
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
for
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
the jobs that you choose or chose what
22:08
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
was the deciding factor or what was
22:12
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like the goal or the reason as to why you accepted it um
22:18
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
before i used to pay me
22:22
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and the the spiritual aspect of like
22:27
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
even at tsa i hated it but i was like i'm keeping this plane safe i'm taking people's
22:31
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
waters and peanut butters but
22:35
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
uh may i know for sure at least there was no bond for
22:39
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
most part i did my best and then at immigration i was like um
22:44
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know there's a lot of good people they get mixed in with the bad people because
22:48
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
but i'm i make sure to do my best
22:52
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
and say hey this person deserves this yeah right
22:57
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
so you applied for the tsa job with like what what was
23:01
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
the reason like oh i want this job because
23:05
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Oh, I needed employment.
23:06
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Okay.
23:07
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Was that it?
23:10
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah.
23:12
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Okay.
23:13
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Yeah.
23:15
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Speaker 3 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And then the immigration job.
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
Oh,
23:19
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
at TSA,
23:21
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
like I said, they wouldn't give me time off.
23:23
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
So we were finally getting some of the money to go do these things and have,
23:27
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you know,
23:28
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
vacations and not be broke.
23:30
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Speaker 2 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And then...
23:36
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And TSA was like,
23:37
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
you get to bid for your time off.
23:39
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And I'd be like,
23:40
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
okay, I want this week.
23:41
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And they're like, no,
23:43
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
it's one day at a time.
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Speaker 4 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
And then I'd be like,
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Speaker 1 (GMT20250414-220759_Recording_640x360)
that's.
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