1779804418987
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There are so many sources of power that I think one
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of the biggest mistakes we make as mediators is we jump to conclusions very
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quickly.
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We see someone who may be a better conversationalist and can communicate
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really well.
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We see someone who has the money.
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We see someone who has the status of position.
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I'm your boss.
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We see someone who has the power of...
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of culture,
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meaning a hierarchy within their culture.
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There's dozens and dozens of sources of power.
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In one of my special education mediations,
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there was a mother on one side.
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and there was eight to ten people or more on the
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other side.
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There was the school principal,
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there was a special education director,
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there was a guidance counselor,
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there was a regular classroom teacher and a resource teacher,
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and on and on and on.
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And they were all lined up.
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And in my infinite mediator wisdom,
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I thought,
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This is what we call stacking the bleachers,
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which is the amount of people over here is greater than the amount of people over here.
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And therefore,
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they will be intimidating to the person that's over here.
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So I thought,
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how can I do this so brilliantly and so subtly that no one will see
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that I'm emptying the bleachers?
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And so I said to them,
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I really appreciate that you're all here.
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Since we are at the district office,
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though, and it's easier for me if there's fewer people around the table,
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I'd really like you to go back to your desk so I can have just two,
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maybe three people at a time,
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and that way I can call you easily,
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be prepared to come in right away,
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and I think that would work best for me.
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And they said,
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okay, fine.
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And I'm feeling kind of proud.
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And then the mom says to me,
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Nina, can I talk to you for a minute?
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And I said...
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Sure.
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And we go out and we barely get out the door.
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She wheels at me and she goes,
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what are you,
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what?
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What are you doing?
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Why did you do that?
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Get those people back here.
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And I said, excuse me?
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And she said, I have waited so long to have everyone,
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everyone focused on my child and nobody else.
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You know how long it's taken me to get all those people at the table.
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I want every single one of them in there and they're going to be there until five o 'clock.
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You go back there and you get them.
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I said, yes,
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ma 'am.
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So I made a presumption about a source of power and
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I was wrong.
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I was completely and totally wrong.
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It was her power to bring them to the table.
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And that's where that part that I said earlier about jumping to conclusions
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too quickly or,
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oh, I've had a situation like this before,
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or this is how I would feel if I was in that situation.
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We have to take that time.
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We have to ask the questions.
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