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الفصل 1: awesome i might have had that same zone so what do you think cmu should do better that would make your college experienc… 298s · Speaker 1

awesome i might have had that same zone so what do you think cmu should do better that would make your college experience better what i think cmu could do better i haven't really thought about that it's an interesting question because i've …

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الفصل 2: So, I was pretty busy with that. 303s · Speaker 2

So, I was pretty busy with that. Like I said, my first year was a little bit weird just because everything was shut down. Most things were virtual that were for the non, for the extra credit or extra curricular type stuff. I got connected w…

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الفصل 3: I know Mitch and Julie I've known them since they've um they before yeah since they got here but um they're really good friends but it also is just a time where you got to move on from college life too so yeah that was that was honestly the biggest part of my social life and then honestly the only other social life I had um was with my quartet yeah when you spend 20 to 40 hours a week with a group of people you get pretty close if you can stay yeah where did you go on summer mission I went to Chicago summer mission oh it was really great um honestly if you have the opportunity or experience or whatever I would highly recommend it um truly one of the best experiences just the way I grew to get closer with a lot of people there I don't know how many people or what some of the people do you know who Grace Pruitt is yeah I do I went to Chicago summer mission with her so she's a good friend of mine too and she would she would tell you it's great too so um I know a lot of people go on the ocean city one yeah when uh when I was going it was flipped most people went to Chicago and the ocean city and then the year after I went a lot of people started going to um ocean city but totally fine but yeah and now I think it's mostly just ocean city so yeah it is what it is but my wife went to ocean city one yeah I grew up in New Jersey so oh really yeah I grew up probably about an hour or so from ocean city so closer to the New York side okay so how'd you get over here you don't mind me asking no no it's okay uh my dad moved uh he lost his job and got a job in Michigan so after my senior in high school we uh packed up and went here and then I went to another college before this and then I did not like it whatsoever uh did not like who I kind of became there so I uh moved uh not moved but transferred here so it's been much better can I ask where you went before this or before seeing you yeah uh I went to West Virginia University oh oh cool yeah yeah quite quite a bit quite a bit different but yeah um during or like during your first few years or even now uh do you feel like you have enough time to socialize these days um I would say so yeah it's a little bit different this is my sixth year here okay um and I've kind of taken a lot of those steps to be out of crew for more part of the church so I would say like I do like I so I have stuff um small groups that I go to like bible studies um that I go to with people my age similar situation and I participate and help lead with like the youth group and church and it's I think it's a little bit less socialization but more just because it's the it's the core group of friends versus like the large like setting so but I feel like it's also more difficult to do that when you're not in that set yeah like if you're not in the crew setting like it's hard there's not many groups like that for outside yeah especially if you have that you know half foot half the foot out the door with college absolutely uh do you feel like you have enough time for self-care I make it self-care is a fun one I make it uh a point because I think part of self-care is like my faith yeah my relationship with God and so I believe it's most important to spend time with them and whether sometimes I don't spend my time the way I want to um so I think it's just uh where my priorities are at if I don't have enough time but I do I do usually this is one of my kind of lighter years in some ways but um even in uh even when I was super busy my second my second year was um a time where I really got closer in my relationship with God um and like I guess that self-care uh aspect too but um just because I would I would get up at anywhere from probably about 5 a. 294s · Speaker 1

I know Mitch and Julie I've known them since they've um they before yeah since they got here but um they're really good friends but it also is just a time where you got to move on from college life too so yeah that was that was honestly the…

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الفصل 4: and I would spend you about two hours like in doing my quiet time um just kind of center myself for the day on god and then i would be gone from about 7 a. 300s · Speaker 3

and I would spend you about two hours like in doing my quiet time um just kind of center myself for the day on god and then i would be gone from about 7 a.m till sometimes up as late as like 10 to midnight um i usually just i would have cla…

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الفصل 5: like i'm a better balance of life but I tend to try to do a lot so I feel like I'm much more balanced now and that just … 300s · Speaker 1

like i'm a better balance of life but I tend to try to do a lot so I feel like I'm much more balanced now and that just came out of a process of continually hitting walls here and there of like you're doing too much again so I can relate to…

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الفصل 6: you a long time and i hope to keep playing music every day of my life if i can excuse me does music calm you yeah um i g… 299s · Speaker 1

you a long time and i hope to keep playing music every day of my life if i can excuse me does music calm you yeah um i grew up before saxophone i played the piano um i've been playing piano since i was about seven um and i grew up playing c…

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الفصل 7: But I had managers that would, they would stop at like the drug, the drugstore before work and they'd have a couple of whiskey bottles in the back for like later when they took home my home. 308s · Speaker 2

But I had managers that would, they would stop at like the drug, the drugstore before work and they'd have a couple of whiskey bottles in the back for like later when they took home my home. So I had a manager that dealt vapes to minors and…

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الفصل 8: Yeah. Uh, I really just, I really never had, um, a desire to drink or do drugs, um, anyways, even with, without Crew. 302s · Speaker 1

Yeah. Uh, I really just, I really never had, um, a desire to drink or do drugs, um, anyways, even with, without Crew. Um, I think that's, in some ways, that's what made someone, like, the, I guess, quote-unquote, I mean, like, it was loneli…

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الفصل 9: music stuff mostly just my quartet so yeah so yeah I didn't I didn't really see a whole lot of the drinking and drugs I know I know people partied and did stuff I I'm I guess in that sense like I heard it I just about it and I just wasn't there to physically see it or whatnot and then my high homeschool I was actually part of a marching band homeschool that's great that was not a part of that at all because it's a Christian homeschool group so yeah yeah do you see college students who have experienced negative consequences from drinking too often and or too much alcohol yeah yeah um I mentioned one of the quartets the quartets around us some of them did not get along have to drink or do drugs like they would do drugs before like doing their stuff together because they just couldn't stand each other at the time so I've known one of the groups above us was extreme some of the people were extremely depressed so I've seen you know and heard about people that just like they can't do their classes because they got hungover or you know they just skip their classes I live close to frat row so I hear most of the people partying starting at 9 a. 299s · Speaker 2

music stuff mostly just my quartet so yeah so yeah I didn't I didn't really see a whole lot of the drinking and drugs I know I know people partied and did stuff I I'm I guess in that sense like I heard it I just about it and I just wasn't t…

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الفصل 10: Students that go here could be surrounding students as well, like high school. 303s · Speaker 2

Students that go here could be surrounding students as well, like high school. It's hard because I don't, I'm not really a part of that, so I don't feel like I'm fully qualified to say, I guess. But, I mean, I do think it is a problem, but …

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الفصل 11: a wise mentor and they'd have all have mentors and just um that could build into them in a healthy way and uh just encou… 283s · Speaker 1

a wise mentor and they'd have all have mentors and just um that could build into them in a healthy way and uh just encouraged to make good decisions and have people that would call them out for bad things too um so but that kind of goes the…

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الفصل 12: i just grew up in a few different sceneries like it was just usually some overlap where i would be a part of this group … 133s · Speaker 4

i just grew up in a few different sceneries like it was just usually some overlap where i would be a part of this group for this time and then this group for this time on the timeline and then yeah like there was there was overlap and just …

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الفصل 13: one thing i would do is a you can reutilize some donuts for certain things is it pushed out too much it was it just like… 58s · Speaker 2

one thing i would do is a you can reutilize some donuts for certain things is it pushed out too much it was it just like it was either three inches or nothing you don't have to if you really needed to i would say the next time we sell any m…

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الفصل 14: where are you folks today good how you doing i'm gonna get a um vanilla buttercream amazing thank you i feel like we've … 78s · Speaker 3

where are you folks today good how you doing i'm gonna get a um vanilla buttercream amazing thank you i feel like we've been probing on rationale why the reasons are important to you um that means i get 50% do you do shakes yeah we do shake…

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الفصل 15: i'm from boleyn green things like things of that nature which can be frustrating and there's some of that yeah the walls are put up with the relationship so yeah um but i also have to be careful like not to automatically be like oh people who drink like they're they're always ruining their lives like they're the worst like that's not the aspect of guiding but there can be a almost middle ground of like knowing that the usual is that people do often go too far with it So, and it's the willingness to hear people out, but also, you know, just because I know that not all drinking is bad means that I want to go partying. 61s · Speaker 7

i'm from boleyn green things like things of that nature which can be frustrating and there's some of that yeah the walls are put up with the relationship so yeah um but i also have to be careful like not to automatically be like oh people w…

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الفصل 16: Are there different types of college student drinkers in your mind? 72s · Speaker 3

Are there different types of college student drinkers in your mind? I think so. I think there's some people that just, like the group of friends that I have, most of the guys in there are more fine with, or like, they'll have a drink or two…

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الفصل 17: feel like I can't anymore. 312s · Speaker 2

feel like I can't anymore. Or, um, or I don't, I guess I decide I don't want to, you know, just a little bit more free-handed with them. The, uh, kind of like the tap out, like they go until they have to tap out. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think I…

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الفصل 18: think so thank you you too i don't i mean yeah i don't think so yeah i just i yeah for that you know it's separated enough like a restaurant oops people are just keeping to them their own groups of people so i feel like the cabin is like that as well like it's set up in like different like booths and like tables so it's like not like just an open space with just bars around yeah it's definitely very in the middle between like a restaurant and like a bar or like a like a club uh kind of like it's still got the karaoke and yeah it's like a tavern yeah definitely um do the drinkers ever ask you uh why you are not drinking um i've had some no not at those places um i've had some friends ask me like um if it's just because i don't like it or something and whatnot and i'll just tell them it is what it is yeah but yeah and sometimes i will have a drink just to be a part of the group but just keep it at one and just you know i don't want like there's i i mean i guess i do still have fomo sometimes but i feel like one drink is still fine too yeah and most of them like are just one one or two anyways so it's just not like my favorite i don't know for the most part how does not drinking impact your relationships with others i think it's good um i mean one of the things that i really appreciate is having control over my body so people know people know who i am um and i think kind of in an abstract way the you know the inverse relationship of not drinking and being around me in different social situations like i'm pretty consistent and thorough so like there's just it's you know i i guess the same attitude that i have like i'm not just saying no to say no or um just to be a party grouper like this is just who i am like consistent yeah i think so i feel like some people like will be put by some of those choices but then they're like that that's just that's just who they are so and so um that's turned into some to some good conversations sometimes um was there uh did you ever Do you ever have to have like more conversations on kind of like why you're not drinking with like music students compared to other crew members? 304s · Speaker 2

think so thank you you too i don't i mean yeah i don't think so yeah i just i yeah for that you know it's separated enough like a restaurant oops people are just keeping to them their own groups of people so i feel like the cabin is like th…

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الفصل 19: So, and like, he didn't even take all of his stuff with them. 306s · Speaker 2

So, and like, he didn't even take all of his stuff with them. He left like probably a third of his belongings behind. Mm-hmm. So, I'm just like, you know, what would life have looked like if maybe he wasn't in his room all the time? Smoke, …

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الفصل 20: preventative side of it like i like i just don't want to ever get to that point and i've known people that are like they've come out of it and they still can't be around people like it's still just not good for them to be around people that do it so and i experienced that a lot my first and second year especially i just couldn't be around certain groups of people and so it was just the choices that i had to make so difficult i guess in that way because i mean meant sometimes i had to look a little bit harder for um friendships and relationships but yeah uh have you ever been tempted to drink if so how did you handle this situation um i don't think so i mean like before i was of legal age just especially no um i have some family members that are alcoholics and just it's really hurt a lot of my like my parents um and just between that and a lot like losing your control of yourself like i just didn't ever want to be in a position where i could do that to people that i loved and cared for and whatnot um and even my parents own lives like they they used to drink a ton um and they stopped because they didn't want to be their parents like they didn't want to repeat their parents so just some of that like as as i grew up knowing that so i i just i don't i don't really remember ever having that temptation and i just a lot of my friends were kind of in similar boats where they didn't really want that either so that helps too um i guess even go with drinking too far i've had a few times where we've done some drinking games or you know um and just it can be more than i would normally have again kind of feeling that like that bit of that buzz but so i guess sometimes it's it can be that's the other thing like if you do are drinking and it's part of a game or something like it is harder to stop if you're already like it's harder to draw that boundary line if you don't have that drawn before so that's only happened to me once or twice though um and i try really hard to be intentional about that uh about just having some of those boundaries just set beforehand or you know like it and in recent times when we played you know instead of just drinking alcohol we'll just drink water like and just there's other ways to yeah alcohol is not a requirement to tap on it's not um did you ever feel any sense of guilt if you did drink too far i i have Because there's still that personal conviction, like the one or two times where I, I don't, that's why I'm just getting popular, so. 297s · Speaker 2

preventative side of it like i like i just don't want to ever get to that point and i've known people that are like they've come out of it and they still can't be around people like it's still just not good for them to be around people that…

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الفصل 21: Um, no, I don't think so. 131s · Speaker 1

Um, no, I don't think so. We've talked about it a lot, and I've answered in long format for a lot of the questions, so. I appreciate that. Yeah, hopefully it's more helpful than not, but, uh, yeah. I, I guess the only other, maybe a quick t…

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الفصل 22: like, done. 56s · Speaker 3

like, done. She had, like, one exam left or something and she was out partying and she was, like, like, on the sidewalks slash in, you know, on the front row had open containers, which she was allowed to do, and she got, um, the police came…

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الفصل 23: What would you say the good habits are? 78s · Speaker 2

What would you say the good habits are? Um, just having a good community around you. Finding things that you do enjoy that don't involve, you know, losing control of yourself. I know Mount Pleasant doesn't necessarily have a ton of things. …

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الفصل 24: But, yeah. 140s · Speaker 4

But, yeah. One last thing. Pretend, we kind of covered this a little bit earlier, but pretend CMU had all the money and resources to give to freshmen to do well in classes and have some fun in college. What could or should they do? I don't …

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الفصل 25: Yeah, you're welcome. 15s · Speaker 3

Yeah, you're welcome. Hopefully I didn't talk to you off too much. Oh, no, I appreciate it a lot, actually. Good. Yeah. I find this stuff fascinating, too. So, I like doing interviews and just... Anyway.

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