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Lawyers are wordsmiths,
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and most of us have huge vocabularies,
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and we use words as swords.
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I have,
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over the years,
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started paying attention to kind of what
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I'm hearing behind the words.
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I watch people's body language very carefully.
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I noticed clenched jaws.
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I noticed eye contact.
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I'm not a big fan of reading faces.
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It's just an intuition I have about people.
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If they're not making eye contact,
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why aren't they making eye contact?
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I don't think there's a top three list of why people aren't making eye contact.
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It could be shame.
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It could be they have something in their eye.
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It could be any number of things.
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But I also have a way of dealing with nonverbal
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communication.
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I am stunningly...
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Blunt.
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I'll just ask somebody,
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why aren't you looking at me?
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To clients,
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I'll reach over and say,
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I say every time I say X,
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you do this,
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and I'll start laughing.
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And they'll usually start laughing or crying or something,
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but it'll get the emotion out.
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But I tend to just comment on it.
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The biggest mistakes I make are presuming I know what that nonverbal
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communication means.
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I just would think that,
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you know, they're rolling their eyes,
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it means they're lying.
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No, it doesn't necessarily mean that.
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They might think I'm an idiot.
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Several years ago,
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I was mediating a very contentious case regarding
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a very high level.
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I believe he was the CFO of a company who was alleged
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to have been sexually harassing his secretary.
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And she told me he just stares at my breasts constantly.
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He just wouldn't stop.
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And she seemed very sincere,
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and he seemed very sincere.
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I finally asked him.
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I was talking to him.
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I finally said,
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you know, do you have contact lenses?
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And he said, no,
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why do you ask?
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I said, because you won't look at me.
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And I'm trying to raise myself up in my
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chair to try to make eye contact.
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And I made it safe enough for him to finally say,
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I'm sorry, but I am really nervous about talking to women.
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You know, I'm really good at spreadsheets,
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but I'm not good at talking to women.
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They make me nervous.
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And I said, so you're looking right here on me.
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Do you know you're doing it?
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And he's just startled and had no idea.
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He actually started crying.
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He said no one had ever told him that.
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