1779725812739
May 25, 2026 16:18
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I have coached around apology when it comes up
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and suggested that at first,
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if it's not real,
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don't even bother.
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because it just does more harm than good.
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Again,
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I suggest to them that an apology says,
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I'm sorry,
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but is not going to be received as an apology.
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Yes,
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I definitely have said there are times when I think that the
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other side might be able to hear it,
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and I have said there are times when I don't think the timing is
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right here.
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Again,
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it is for...
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For some people to get closure in some situations,
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it's important for them to be able to.
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apologize and it's sometimes the other side that doesn't even want to hear it
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it's it's too late too little too late they don't even want to hear it so
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sometimes i have to coach the other side to be receptive to
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the possibility that there may be a real apology here i don't
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make an i don't i'm not the one that's going to make into judgment about whether or not
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it's an authentic apology it's for that party to decide
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but
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try to encourage them to at least be willing to
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give the other party an opportunity to apologize.
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It's very powerful,
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very healing process.
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In a healing moment,
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I've seen healing moments around this which are transformative.
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I think it's very important for us as mediators to respect
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that there are these possibilities and if we see the opportunities
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to invite and offer and then leave it to the parties to choose to
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take advantage of that offering or not.
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