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Well,

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your enthusiasm shows no balance.

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Oh,

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geez.

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And it rubs off on me.

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Something that was so enthusiastic in my

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mind,

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you know,

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would be accommodating or to

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me in my mind anyway.

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And it just gets killed with a few messages

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from you.

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Anyway,

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what was going through my mind?

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was is well

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obviously we get your sorry

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we apply for the 651 visa so

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you aren't restricted in

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your time obviously as we spoke so you could come here and just spend three

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months

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And it just got me thinking that you

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keep wanting me to not give up on you or

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to fight,

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whatever.

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And I was just thinking today,

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this is probably

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something that I could give you is

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another three months to see what

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it is exactly.

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that we are trying to work towards obviously after

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receiving your messages today and just how

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it's been since we started community and doesn't really give me

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much faith at all uh because there were certain things

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that i wanted to achieve while you were over here and

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that is we do

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i don't know what you call it

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But we would go see a pastor anyway in our time here.

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And we would actually do the,

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I guess,

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for lack of not knowing the term,

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marriage counselling or engagement counselling,

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whatever it is that you're supposed to do through the church before

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you marry.

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And probably start off,

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so for the three months,

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I wouldn't make any advances on you.

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I wouldn't have that mindset that I'm just going to...

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You know,

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that we're going to finish what we started kind of thing.

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I would actually give you the space for three months,

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no kissing,

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no nothing.

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You would come over and we would do

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the things that I'm talking about.

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That is unless you

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actually realized that God has blessed

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you and you better stop kicking him in the guts with

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me.

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And you do want to.

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um take it to that level

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where we we finish what we started anyway

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that's only for you to decide or whatever um

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you obviously can't expect for

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more proposals that would just be retarded on my part uh

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so yeah that's kind of where my mind's at with that

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kind of thing so yeah we would do the the marriage

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counseling

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And you would have to do your own personal

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counselling for whatever it is that you need to address.

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I have my ideas,

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but that's not for me.

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That's for you to come to learn and understand about

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yourself and to accept and forgive

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for you to be able to rid yourself of this demon that

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inhabits you.

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So that'd be two of the conditions,

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marriage counselling,

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engagement counselling,

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fiancé counselling,

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whatever it is,

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I would approach a pastor here

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and see how they do

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it. I'd probably find one that I'd feel comfortable with that

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actually resonated the way that you and I think about

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our faith.

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So

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pretty much,

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Like on approval of the visa,

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you'd come over and as

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you know,

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I'm on holidays.

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we wouldn't really be doing anything straight

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away oh yeah something else i wanted to throw in so

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as part of this marriage counseling i would

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actually make a point

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of addressing your concerns about me having

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female friends and if the

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pastor i can't find anything biblical about

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the way you think about it

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I understand the energy and I've come to accept that.

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But as far as scripturally

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speaking,

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there's nothing in there that I can find that

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says you shouldn't.

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But should the pastor that is counselling

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us tell me that I should not

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have friends that are female?

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then I would honor that.

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And you might think it's a slap in the face,

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but you have to understand,

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I want to operate my life on scripture.

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And I've already told you I will

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limit my contact and how I am

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with my friends.

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But I'm a loyal person.

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They're interesting people.

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They're good people.

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Like, why would I just throw them out of my life?

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Because you have a

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certain way of thinking.

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Like,

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they could be good friends of yours.

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That's what I can't understand.

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You could actually make some good friends over

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here. But anyway,

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so yeah,

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so if the pastor told me that I needed to remove women

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from my life,

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except solely for you.

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and family then i would okay

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so yes back to it we

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obviously i don't want to spend

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too much money because there's some things coming up so

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we would pretty much stay because i don't know if i

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told you i still got two months off now right and then i go back to work

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for just over a month and then i have another month off holidays

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And then I work for about a month and a half after

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that.

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And then I will more than likely have another month and a half off.

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So I've got a lot of leave coming up.

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So we're going to be able to spend some quality time with each other.

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And you're just not going to be left on your own for,

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you know,

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nine hours a day.

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So that's going to be good for us.

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Should we not kill each other first?

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You would meet all my friends,

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just not my female friends,

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but you would meet all my friends because we'd have time to do that.

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It wouldn't be in one hit.

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So I would probably do what we did last time.

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You'd fly into Darwin.

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I'd make sure my friends Steve and Maurice are there and

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we would, I'd obviously meet you up there.

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I don't know how,

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I don't want to drive up.

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You wouldn't be able to handle the driving.

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back hopefully one day you could handle long trips but i wouldn't

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do that to you so we'd stay in darwin for a couple of days with

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them and make our way back down and then we'd just i really

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want to focus on my health and my fitness and all those kind of things okay

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so i do wanna

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not

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move around a lot because it causes too much distraction plus

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it's going to give us the opportunity to go to counseling

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we can you

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know be active with each other you

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can join up at the gym here

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and I wouldn't join up but I would drop you off and

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The gym has a pool and sauna and all that kind of stuff that

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you'd be able to use.

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So you're not going to be doing

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what you did like last time.

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You'd have water every day.

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You'd be swimming every day if you want.

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And it's not a public pool,

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so it's not going to be chlorinated to the

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shit, you know.

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So,

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yeah, we just.

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live life just normally and we'd work on us

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and yeah and then it would come I

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have a 60th birthday party to go to I've got friends

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from Brisbane coming down to it as well

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and they have two boys and I'm

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hiring a two bedroom unit for us all so

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you would be spending like a weekend with you

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know

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three of my friends and

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then I would we would come back to Alice Springs

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and obviously by this time we would

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be nearing the three months grace

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period or working out period

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or whatever period you want to call it and

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I would book us to go on a holiday to somewhere in Asia.

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Don't know where,

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it would be where the cheapest flights are.

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I've seen flights to Vietnam recently for $600

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return.

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But anyway,

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the point of the holiday is,

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even if you decide by that stage,

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look,

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before we would go on the

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holiday to thing,

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we would travel to Brisbane.

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And we would probably have a pre kind of Christmas thing

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with family and you would get to meet my family.

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And this is all probably

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stressing you the hell out.

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But when you really think about it,

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it's just a nice way of going about things.

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And then from Brisbane,

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we would fly to wherever in Asia and probably

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spend about three weeks there.

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Now,

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in the event that it was a one -way ticket through Asia

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back to Riga,

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because you don't want

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to marry me or you don't want to pursue it anymore or whatever,

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that's fine.

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And I would be open to us

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partying on a good way.

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uh and just spending a week somewhere in asia together

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and then you know at least our memories of

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our experience ended well if that's

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how it was to be if we both realize that yes it's

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just um it just

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isn't going to work but in saying that

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if you know you and

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i decide that we can do this

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then you would obviously come back into

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the country and that would

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be for another three months and it would be the worst time of the year right

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because it will

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be hot but i will

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probably have leave and you know february to go to japan

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so we could

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also do that obviously I've got to work out everything but

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you know yeah we

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would probably apply for a 300 visa

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while you're here is it 300?

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600 to try and have you stay for a year

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and then we could do well it wouldn't even be a year I don't know I'd

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have to look into it if we decided to go that way

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And look,

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given how you are and how you're feeling,

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and you're probably going to do the flight,

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I don't know why I'm even doing this,

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but I did say I would give it to what was going through my

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brain.

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So,

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yeah, just that's how it would look for the first

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three months anyway.

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After that would be up to you.

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And given you agree that I should not support

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you like I would.

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as if you were my wife.

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I was your husband.

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This trip over would not

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be full of gifts or anything.

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Like,

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I wouldn't buy a tablet or anything like that.

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Because,

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yeah,

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that's a big expense,

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like, to even do this.

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Like,

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in a way,

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I'm reserved about it because it is a big expense and it really

14:54

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doesn't seem like...

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you ever really appreciated that expense.

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But anyway,

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that's just getting off point.

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So you have an understanding of what's going through my mind.

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But yeah,

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that's it.

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I guess I'm just telling you because I did say I

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was going to give you a proposal,

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but I was expecting

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you to be receptive to us and you're just struggling so

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frigging hard.

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um so yeah um you're wasting my time this

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is how you put it so maybe that's all it is okay um

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that's it so yeah enjoy

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