PEOPLE CANNOT GIVE WHAT THEY DO NOT HAVE
Apr 19, 2026 21:00
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People who avoid their own feelings will have a very hard time acknowledging yours. Not because they don't care necessarily, but because they haven't yet learned how to sit with themselves. If someone avoids their own sadness, they probably won't know how to hold yours. If someone suppresses their own needs, they'll likely dismiss yours. If someone lacks emotional depth, they'll have a really hard time offering it to you.
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Speaker 1 (PEOPLE CANNOT GIVE WHAT THEY DO NOT HAVE)
Again, it's not that they're incapable of caring. It's that they're unable to give you something they don't have. People can only meet you and understand you as deeply as they've met and understood themselves. Once you realize that, you can stop taking their behavior so personally and start investing in people who can actually meet you right where you are.
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