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I gave a speech once about the 10 biggest screw -ups in
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mediations,
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which was much better attended than if I'd given one on my
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10 biggest successes.
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I think the story you're referring to is when I was once called to
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the home of Luis Galla,
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who was well over 80 at the time,
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90, in his 90s,
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I think, but at any rate drove all the
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way to Modesto,
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to his home,
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and he was...
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there and he'd been in a long,
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bitter battle with other members of the wine industry.
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And we sat down at the table and he,
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at his kitchen table,
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in this home that he'd been in for 50,
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60 years.
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And he said,
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so young man,
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he said,
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if you were me,
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what would you do in this case?
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And the only person there was his lawyer,
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his trusted lawyer.
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who kind of was like the lawyer in The Godfather,
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because he was blonde -haired Irish lawyer
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with Louis Gallo,
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the great Louis Gallo.
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And he had set this all up for me
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to convince Gallo that this wasn't good for the wine industry.
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And I said,
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you know,
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this happens to be the season of...
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the High Holidays for we Jews,
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and we believe in annual
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forgiveness,
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that every year you gotta forgive the baker for
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shorting you on a loaf of bread,
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and the tailor who screwed up your pants,
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and let go of your grudges,
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and you go to temple on that day,
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and you let go of them all,
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and then you start collecting new grudges the next day,
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but those are gone.
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And so you asked me what I would do.
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I would let go of your grievance with this guy,
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have him make a contribution to one
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of your charities,
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many good works that you do,
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and then move on.
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You asked me,
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that's what I would do.
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And he started to laugh in this high -pitched laughter.
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And he said,
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forgive that son of a bitch for what he
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did to me.
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He said,
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son.
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He said, we're from different planets.
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And he said,
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I think we just ought to skip talking about this case and go look at
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fishing pictures on the wall,
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because you and I are just not going to be able to communicate.
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And that was it.
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It was over.
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And his lawyer just sat there with his head in his hands and shaking
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his head.
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And he later said to me that if I had just said the
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same thing to him,
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but said,
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you know, I would humiliate that guy.
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I'd have him give money to your charity.
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I'd stand there where he writes out a check to your charity,
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and I'd kind of rub it in his nose and make him crawl over
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to give it to you.
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He would have loved it.
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Same solution.
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So,
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you know,
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there are many mistakes.
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It doesn't always,
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your solutions don't always work.
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